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Son's ex-girlfriend claims she is pregnant with his child. Need advice please!

This is a tough one for me.
My son's ex girl friend claims she is pregnant with his child.  He says no way.  He said he wore 2 condoms and pulled out. When he mentioned that he will seek a paternity test she got nervous.

My son is in a wonderful relationship with a girl and now this is hanging over his head!

If he wore 2 condoms and pulled out before climaxing, how can she be pregnant?  She claims she is 6 months pregnant.

She is known to lie about things in the past.  She doesn't want child support she is just afraid that he will come after the child.  My son shows no interest in this girl or her baby because he knows it cannot be his.  But, what if it is.  I will have a grandchild out there and not know it?

Please give some advice!  Should he mention this to his girlfriend now or not tell her?
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i honestly never heard of anyone puttin 2 condoms on. im pretty sure hes lying about that. he probably used a condom, but not 2.
your son sounds kinda young. and if the ex gf planning on keepin the baby i guess the only way to find out is a paternity test.
and yes he should tell his current gf, shes gona find out anyway.

good luck
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It sounds like she is lying. Make sure that baby and your son has a paternity test and go through an attorney if you need to. I believe most men would rather pay the money for an paternity test than pay child support for many years for a child that did'n't belong to them.
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