Too much sex???

[CassCore]

So most people would think that a guy would LOVE to have a girl who wanted to have sex all the time. My boyfriend gets upset with me though because he thinks that I want it ALL the time...even when he's tired and sick and at inappropraite times. He's right...I mean I'm not like completely ridiculous, but I do demand it more than I should. I think it goes back to just wanting to feel desired and loved and wanted. He is wonderful about telling me he loves me and that he wants me and that he's turned on by me and attracted to me. But this is tearing us apart...he feels like no matter what he does I'm never satisfied...truth is I love him more than anything and I am satisfied...a lot of times I don't even realize I'm doing what I'm doing. Anyway...I just don't want him to feel like he's never satisfing me because he is...I understand where he's coming from. Can anyone help me?

[Judy246]

p.s. we also have a "Sexual Health" forum.

[Judy246]

If you continue to pressure with your needyness you will cause problems in your relationship. I think it is alread. Something in your past has emotionally effected and effecting you (trauma, abandonment, lack of love & effection, etc) and you are confusing and relating sex or intimacy with what a loving relationship should be based and not soley on sex. You could also have an addiction that if not control will eventually with time destroy your relationship and you will end up right back with a new neddyness and continued problem. You really should talk with someone a counselor to get down to the real problem with you to where you are turning to sex to fill that void of abandonment or something.  Also, constantly pressuring your b/f for sex even when he is sick is selfish and inconsiderate only thinking of you, so time to face what is really bothering you and there is absolutely no reason why you can't have a loving, sexual fullfilling relationship without it become overbearing and a hassle for him. Good Luck, Judy