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1646899 tn?1302143134

Why do they deny having a desease when the truth will do.

Why do they deny the truth and make up lies when theyre in love with you and care about you so badly....they can't tell you that? is it becuase theyre scared of being rejected? or is it becuase they dont want to be a burdin of some kind and are trying to live out as normal as possible? ooor they lie to get to know u so but not for you to know them as much? only for they can be comfterble enough??....  i figured out he has this desease with the things he would say just dont fit.. he ***** at lying.. and if tell him he'll deny it and get mad...i dont get it ! ! ! ?  


H.E.L.P ... i wanna love this guy, but i cant love with lies..
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Hi.  Well, you are exaclty right------------  you can't love with lies.  He is lying so this is not the guy for you.  I'd move on--------- right now.  Before you get in any deeper and it hurts more.  He is showing you that he will lie under certain circumstances and that is a big red flag that during dating, I wouldn't ignore.  I'd act on it and move on.

He may be lying because he is afraid you will leave him if you know the truth. But that is no excuse.  That means that if you enter into a long term relationship with him that he will lie during difficult times as not to upset you.  This causes big problems.  And your last statement is if you tell him you know, he'll deny it and get mad is another red flag.  

Please consider that he may not be the best canidate for having a healthy long term relationship with.

Best of luck and I"m sorry as that might not be what you want to hear.  Peace.
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1646899 tn?1302143134
my hero :)  .. thanks specialmom ur probly ryt :) thanks
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