Lying about pregnancy? Could I be the father?

[ManInDistress]

1) I first learned about that my ex was pregant through email, not phone call or even face to face, not even an ultrasound to show me that she was actually pregnant and how many weeks.  I find it quite peculiar that she let me know the situation only after I didn’t attend her birthday party/barbeque (At which she told me that she were pregnant because she couldn’t have a drink during your birthday because it caused you throw up; while I have several pictures of her at a party from MySpace pictures throwing back liquor.  But let’s go deeper than that.  Even the news that she began to tell me is a pattern.  Only after I couldn’t give her a ride, she tells me that she couldnt have the abortion. And only after I tell her that I will come to popular bar with another female that she began to tell me that you didn’t have the second abortion.

2) She claim that she were six weeks pregnant, from super bowl night (February 1st), I have proof that not only we didn’t have sex that night but we went to the my friends house and I went home so that I could go to work the next day,


3) I also have proof through the yahoo archives that we did not have sex since November, prior to time you claim I were gay because I wouldn’t have sex with her.  But lets go deeper than that, if your last missed period was in December, before February 1st that would make you more than six weeks pregnant, which was a lie at which she told me on March 19th.    However she is so adamant that we had sex and she was six weeks pregnant, but Im just not seeing it add up.  Other red flags that are being thrown up is that she hasn’t posted one myspace photo or even mentioned it on her page about suspecting mom (and she’s and adamant myspace subscriber).  Also she keeps telling me that she doesn’t want a dime from me, and never will ask me for child support.  I had to change my number to keep her from harassing me with upsetting text messages.  My last communication I have had with her was stating that I don’t see how she would be pregnant by me and that I will be asking for a paternity test.  She hasn’t even asked me to come to any of the doctor visits, and when she mentioned abortion, she didn’t even want me to come to the clinic. I recently saw her and she would be close to 4/5 months pregnant and I haven’t even seen a nudge on her stomach.

Based on my story do you think there is anyway possible the baby could be mine if at all she is pregnant?  

[Judy246]

Only solution if she (should be mutual) decides to keep the baby...DNA is the way to go.

Don't break your head with constant worrying, because you will make yourself crazy. Wait until the baby is born and request or demand a paternity test and if it proves that it is your child make sure to be responsible and take financial care of your child.  Judy

[teko]

IMO, BS

But just in case, if she does have a baby, dna, as suggested, definately.

[jo929]

Demand a paternity test, so it wont come back later to haunt you  luck  jo

[heatherlynn22]

if she does give birth...demand a pregnancy test. if she is 4-6 months she should most definitely be showing by now. like ajh said SOME women don't show at all or hardly at all but that doesn't happen all that often. whether she's tiny (my mom was a size 2 when she got pregnant with me and when she was 6 months, i've seen photos and videos of her, she had a very prominent baby bump( or a larger woman (i have a cousin who is a larger girl who is pregnant and you can tell she's pregnant) you should be able to see a baby bump. demand u/s pictures, demand to go to her appointments with her, to speak with the doctor and DEMAND that paternity test. DO NOT SIGN THE BIRTH CERTIFICATE if you are not 100% sure!!!!

[AHP84]

Nope, doesn't sound like she's pregnant to me.
However, if she is, definitely get a paternity test. I don't know if I'm guessing correctly from the info in your post, but if she actually is pregnant, she would be due in August or September.
And yes, if she's 4-6 months pregnant (closer to 6 months) right now, assuming that her last missed period was in Dec., she would most likely be showing. But some women hardly show at all throughout their entire pregnancy; that's EXTREMELY rare, though.
I think she's lying.