Marraige

[perona]

I am 3 yrs marrid woman..i got married to my friend who was working with me only..i accept his proposal bcoz was messd up with my old relationships..nd he was very true..his nature is to help others..he is very nice guy..he alwys respect women..he is perfect..bt i choose him for t wrong resions..i decided to marry him bcoz i thought its easy to get married with a person who lvs u .. i never lvd him..whn he is out for the work assignmtn or some work,i never missd him..i alwsy enjyd my free space..i never thought of him..i never missd him whn he was not arround me..i thought i can spend my life with him..bt nw a days i m getng t thought that my desision was wrong..i alwys search for t support ..i never tried to fight with life by my own..alwys in search of some help..bt nw a days its getn difficult for me..bfore marraige only fall in love with other guy..bt that guy was engaged..so dnt said somethng to him, nd got married..bt nw i am feeling like i did cheat on him..i can never giv him a lv for which he deserve..i never card about him..nd if i dnt say anythng nw also wil gona hurt both of ur in future very badly..nw i want to leave my life all alone..i dnt want to get married ..dnt want any fake life..want to tel him t truth..i knw he lvs me a lot..bt i dnt lv him..i never lvd him..it just i followd all my responsibility..bt nw its a difficult phase for me

[Life360_Dave]

Well this truly is a pickle! But you know what, i kinda think marrying someone that loves you really takes the unknowns out of a relationship. And i think in some ways that your love for him is quite vast.
Bringing happiness to another and not considering your feelings, is in a sense the true meaning of love.

[VICourageous]

The Truth could Set You Free.. Be very Honest and up front with him. He deserves someone who will Love him too. Good Luck!

[BluCrystal]

Hi, Perona.  I am sorry to hear that your marriage is not what you hoped it would be.  Perhaps divorce is the best option for you.  Another option would be for the two of you to live seperately (I know married people who do this, and just see each other regularly).  But it doesn't sound like you even want to be able to see your husband.  In that case, I agree that divorce is best.  Blessings - Blu

[TTinKKerBBell]

You say "He is very true
              His nature is to help Others
              He is a very nice guy
              He respects Women
              He is Perfect
              He Loves You"

What are You looking/wanting/hoping for that does not exist?  Maybe more information from You would be helpful.

You say You don't "love" Him, but what does that mean to You?  It sounds as though You Like and Respect Him but You say You don't Love Him. Again I ask:  What does "love" mean to You?  What would You hope for that You do not have?