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Well I guess I'm a single mom to 5 kids pregnant with my 5th n I'm 30 weeks n my bf my kids dad just left us... Idk how I'm goin to do this on my own.
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Yea I know its messed up but yes I'm gettin child support now but I heard that he quit his job so now I wnt get it :-( n specialmom no he wnt :-(
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Mommy25babies,  it sounds like you're trying not to fight and he actually WANTS to fight,  despite what he says.  He's leaving because he wants to fight and you won't.  I don't know what to tell you - prayers that you can somehow get through this with 5 kids to raise and no man.  Can you get child support?  Do you have the support of your family?
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ugh, this is really hard.  Any chance he'd see a counselor with you?  
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I try my hardest but when I try to talk to him n b in a good mood he will just start yellin at me n treats me like **** n I will just sit there n take it n then he gets even mader at me cuz I will sit there n take it idk wat to do I love him but its so hard to b with him so idk wat to do.?
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973741 tn?1342342773
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Agree with rockrose.  how can you resolve the issues without fighting?  
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13167 tn?1327194124
If he's really truly leaving because "you fight too much",  is there hope that he'd be willing to come back if you two could somehow stop fighting all the time?  If he hasn't found someone else,  and he's telling you the truth that he's leaving because he can't live with all the battles,  then it seems there is hope to change those behaviors.

Best wishes.
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It ***** I dnt know y guys have to do this to us its worst when we r pregnant with there baby.. Its sad :-(
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You can do this I'm gonna be 26 and am on #7  me and my husband fight all the time he drinks all the time and does nothing with his children we are strong you got this girl good luck and congrats!!!
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I feel u I'm divorcing my husband n I'm 25 I have two kids from a previous ex n 1 from my husband n I'm about to have my 4 th  I'm 38 weeks
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It will be fine... women are strong and can do it. Why would you want a guy that clearly does not care about you or your children. I am 26 with my sixth on the way, I am married but that just means I have six with number seven on the way.. he is worse than a kid and does the same stuff the kids do. Don't worry you will figure it out... I am sorry you got to go through this while you are pregnant.
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I Feel your Pain, My Bf Left Me Last Weekend. I'm Pregnant With Our Second Child. We Still Live Together But He Doesn't Talk To Me .We Can Survive This.
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We just fight to much n he said that he cnt do this anymore then hung up on me :-( I hope I can do this I'm only 25 with 5 kids I never see me like this I always dream of havin kids in a nice house n married but I guess its not true n my life just keeps goin dwn hill.
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What happened? You can do it.
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I'm so sorry :(
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