If you are married and fantasizing and masterbating about other women that are not your wife, just in thought is infidelity and it is adultury. No one is getting hurt and you are getting all the pleasure, but in the eyes of God...it is adultury.
Judy
All the time! Yes! Because women see sex as a mental, emotional bonding thing that means forever after and all that. Men on the other hand see it as sex, period. Feels good so do it kind of thing. Now that is not to say that men are cheaters, just that their take on sex is different than ours. If he sees a naked chick, he is gonna look whether he loves you or not. If you ask him if he looked he will deny till the cows come home, cause he dont want to fight, but yeah, they all do. So, you c, you gotta have something to offer someone other than what is at the Y, cause sex aint gonna hold em for long. It helps to have something in common between the ears as well.
I don't know about adultury, but men certainly do it, I can't see any harm in it at all, better that than cheating, looking at porn or getting lap dnaces at strip clubs.
I'm sorry, I meant, "Eyes that don't see, heart that doesn't feel" Judy