mom and teens funny behavior

[dmuzic_lvr]

Im a 36 and married. My wife hey a 16 year old son whom she walks around naked always. She always ask me to leave the doors in the house open at all times. When we first met she told me he still kisses her with an open mouth, and then i notice her dress code and nudeness around him which i told her i was uncomfortable with. I notice at night she goes straight from the shower to his room, in which she closes our bedroom which im in for some odd reason when she never wants it to be closed. However i notice she have a pattern of going from his room straight back into our bathroom and flush the toilet. One day I waited for her to return to the bedroom and I grabbed her touch her vagina and it was absolutely wet. I asked her why is it wet since she is talking to him in his room? She replied and said that she was thinkin of me sexually while she was talking to him, which I told her I find very troubling and I don't believe it. She said nothing is going on between them but I must admit I am having doubts. Should I leave the subject alone or should I do you worried, since I do travel and I'm away for more than 2 weeks a month. Please let me know what route i should take.

[specialmom]

Oh, good one Vance!!  I hadn't thought of that-----  but that is a brilliant idea.  

[Vance2335]

Set up a "Nanny cam" in his room and see if anything goes on.

[specialmom]

Seems odd to me.  Sixteen year olds usually don't kiss their moms with an open mouth.  Heck, some sixteen year olds don't want to kiss mom on the lips period!  

I guess you could always tell her that you think it is very uncomfortable for you and as her spouse, you'd like her to change the dynamics.  

I'm curious how old the boy was when you two married and if this was going on then----  why it wasn't odd to you then.  

Ugh, and if you feel that there is something sexual going on between them, it is your duty to intervene and report it.  Oh, and if you really suspect that, then obviously you must leave immediately as well.  Who would want to live with a child molester?  

good luck and hope it isn't as bad as you say.  

[Londres70]

Ditto TTiKKerBBell!!!!

If this is accurate and true........appalling

First, she would have to admit there is a serious issue here, then go for intense therapy, etc., however, she states there is "nothing" going on and she sees NO problem.  

Personally, I wouldn't be able to stay and have someone carry on like this with their child; there are just too many weird incidences going on.  This is too horrific.  

I am all for bonding with your child, but when someone states he/she is getting "wet" while taking with his/her child..............suspicions would be confirmed and then I would be "running for the hills" and to the divorce lawyer of course.  That's what I would do, however, the decision is all yours.

As Kayannaboo has stated some people are unorthadox in their lifestyle, beliefs and thinking.  Can you accept that if this is the case?  

If you do stay.....PROCEDE WITH CAUTION and seek counselling for yourself to get a professional's opinion.  

[Kayannaboo]

I am unable to give a clear cut answer as to whether or not I think there is something more than mother/son bonding going on, as I am guessing there are more factors to the story. I will agree however, that based on your post, that this situation is definitely one to give PLENTY of thought to.

The walking around naked is weird but not uncommon to me as many women do not feel that they should hide from their children and so they do not. To someone who shares a different thought it is an eyebrow raiser. However, the bathroom scenario is not a good sign if this is a regular routine. Not to mention the incident with her vajay jay being wet after a conversation with him. Why would she be thinking about you sexually when talking to her son? This is a big BIG red flag!

My views are always that if you feel suspicious about another person's actions then is a good chance that there is something to suspect. Also, the fact that you travel often does not put you in a good spot. I have no idea on how you will give yourself peace of mind in whatever decision you need to make. You do not believe her but you cannot just up and leave her based on opinion which may not be fact. It could very well be that she just has unorthodox practices.

PERSONALLY, I would watch them discretely to see what they are up to. It is not to say that I am advocating intrusion on a child's time with their parent but this is a serious situation. If your suspicions are confirmed, then you do not want to be apart of this disaster!

[TTinKKerBBell]

This is bizarre!! and if this is truely as You describe, maybe Your route should be the closest divorce court.