my ex hates me butt i still love him

jane0926

we were dating for 6 months... but he broke up 9 months ago... and i still miss him & love him .. we had a big fight after we broke up since then we never talked.. he went back with his ex after we broke up... and still now, i feel depressed and everything.. i want him back... its like driving me crazy..hes my first. i lost my virginity to him... i want him back like crazy.. wat should i do?

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Well, he is now with someone else hon.  You have been broken up longer than you were together.  I think break ups are hard and hurt and then if something else doesn't come our way---------- we start to only see the good in the relationship and put the bad out of our mind.  We romanticize everything and then start fantasizing about it.  I'd say you are probably doing this.

I think he is gone and it is time to accept that.  I'd do your very best to move past it.  You can get super busy doing the things you like to do.  Now is the time to throw yourself into a hobby.  If you go to school or work, nows the time to really focus on that and excel.  Call up friends and family and get things planned to hang out (diverting attention and time to let your mind wander).  Excercise like crazy.  It is not only a great way to spend our spare time, but it also has great effects for the mind and body.  Volunteer somewhere--------- also very good for taking our mind off of something and has an psychological effect.  Get a journal and write in it when you think of the relationship.

Remember, sometimes when it is hurting, we aren't thinking about something realistically.  I wish you luck and peace.

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jane0926

u have a point... omg,, i been looking for an answer like this.. thank you soo much

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