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pregnant or not????

ok so here it goes..
i've been dating this girl for 3 three months now things are going great she gets her period regular every month.. but we have sex about once a week when we see each other i have never ejaculated in her. i've always pulled out. i make sure i pee before sex as well. but this month she has missed her period she is about 6 days late on her period..she has taken two pregnancy tests already both spread out from each other at least one day in between tests..she also has had a miscarriage before as well...she says she has all the signs/ and symptoms of being pregnant but everytime she takes one of those early detections test that say the can detect low amounts of that hormone..its coming up negative.. she also doesnt feel these symptoms throughtout the day they just come and go.... but she feels that she is pregnant...she works two part time jobs and goes to school full time and now juggling a relationship...i recently had a talk with her and she says that she wants a baby sooner than later and want to get married sooner than later sooo...my questions are do u think her mind could be projecting these symptoms and she believes shes pregnant? orr  do u think she could be under alot of stress with school, work, and a relationship that could cause her to miss her period? or do you think that she really could be pregnant?
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yes i understand but what i dont understand is why she still hasnt gotten her period you know can that happen a woman not be pregnant but still miss her period one month but end up getting it the next month
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Having sex always brings with it a risk of pregnancy.  Always remember that and especially the way you and she were handling that.  Not the best.

I doubt she is pregnant because those tests are pretty accurate------  some will tell you five days BEFORE you expect your period.  She still could be----  but this is easy to remedy----- another test or a blood test at the drs.

Symptoms of super early pregnancy are not many and vague.  Usually you have to have enough of the hormones to have any symptoms and if she doesn't even have enough to register on a pregnancy test-------  well, again, I doubt those are pregnancy symptoms.

She is being clear that she wants to marry you and have a baby right away.  Unless you agree-------  I'd make sure she isn't pregnant and then move on.  It is a big deal to have a baby and BOTH parties should be involved in the decision to do so.  

Anyway, good luck!
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To be honest with you, this question can't be answered over the internet.  

To rule out if she is pregnant for sure she should consult her physician and have it verified with a blood test.  It could just be too early to verify this though.  

She needs to consult her physician about this.  

Sorry, "pulling out" is NOT a realiable way of preventing pregnancy.  You all should be using condoms especially since you all have been only dating 3 months.  

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