sex problem

[locachica182005]

what do i do about my boyfriend raping me while im sleeping

[Judy246]

Rape is force and against your will. When you say no. Is this the case?  Judy

[CrazyGastro]

What exactly do you mean by raping you while you're asleep?
Does he start touching you, and you feign being asleep while he has sex with you? Or do you wake up, tell him to stop, and he continues?

  Interestingly enough, while I  am extremely disturbed by the idea of ever touching someone during their sleep without getting previous consent,  my fiancee said she would not mind if I touched her in her sleep. She assumes she would then wake up and choose how to proceed from there.
  I guess I wouldn't quite classify that scenario as rape, given that we feel extremely comfortable with one another.
But my current assumption is that you do not feel comfortable.
Was it done against your consent? Did you express that lack of consent and desire?

If so, I fully endorse the majority view -> Call the police now.
If it happens again, do not wash yourself. Get up soon after, excuse yourself to get some privacy, call the police and request a rape kit. Make sure to be explicit towards the guy about your lack of consent.

[missnorah]

Just wanted to confirm - call the police. If you are scared or not emotionally ready to do this, call a rape crisis center and get more info first. In the meantime, stay away from him and with friends.

[teko]

Buy him a baby doll. How disrespectful are you going to allow him to get?

[jo929]

why have you put up with it, get rid of the jerk.  luck  jo

[Judy246]

Your boyfriend is a criminal! Rape is a crime and some who is suppose to be in love with you, would not hurt you in the most degrading way. Rape is not only a crime, but he showing you that he has power and control over you. In rape there is a criminal and a victim. You are the victim and if you are smart please report him to the police as soon as possible and you will need to seek counceling for what he has done to you.

Rape will affect all aspects of your life and will not let you move forward. It's debilitating and distructive, so please report him...put him where he belongs (behind bars), talk with you mother to help you with this and take back power and control that he has taken away from you.  He is not a boyfriend, he is a crimal that deserves to be behind bars.  Judy

[PromisedLand]

definitely with Heatherlynn on this...get the police involved...unwanted sex is rape.  Period and when your sleeping?  This guy is scum


Jim

[heatherlynn22]

dump him, go to the hospital and get checked out/rape kit done and call the police.

[iam1butterfly]

dump him, immediately!

[waringblender]

dump him