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was she pregnant?
hey i would be happy if someone could help me with my problem, a few days ago i got my girlfriend of 4 mnths round for a chat, i told her that didnt no if our r/ship was going to last and asked for a couple of days to myself. next day she texted me and told me she was pregnant so we talked about it and said evan if we split up we'll still be there for the baby. the next morning i text her and told her id get a pregnancy test on the night and we cud see it together. a few hours later i had missed calls and i phoned her and her sister answered and said they were in a & e bcause she had blood in her urine. i phoned a few hours later and she said shed had a miscarridge. i then went on to question the validlity of the pregnancy to which i got a tyrade of abuse and we fell out. the "baby" would only of been 4 wks old max. she wants to give it another go but if i find out she was lying i never want to see her again.
I think the pregnancy was to hang on to you and when in fact it did not work and suggested a pregnancy test, she panicked and had to fabricate a story. My guess. She was not in the ER at all. Blood in the urine would be a possible UTI, not signs of miscarriage. You been had. IMO
bez, I agree the timing of this is exceptionally suspicious.
On the other hand, you were breaking up anyway. Had you had an accidental pregnancy you would have to deal with that somehow - I think she will end up actually pregnant this time if you get back with her.
I would say, honestly, that if you do in fact decide to "make another go" of this, demand proof. Demand her emergency room visit summary receipt.
If she's telling the truth I would think she would have already waived that in your face in anger. If she's lying, she'll at least have more respect for you than to think you're a patsy.
On the other hand, you were breaking up anyway. Had you had an accidental pregnancy you would have to deal with that somehow - I think she will end up actually pregnant this time if you get back with her.
I would say, honestly, that if you do in fact decide to "make another go" of this, demand proof. Demand her emergency room visit summary receipt.
If she's telling the truth I would think she would have already waived that in your face in anger. If she's lying, she'll at least have more respect for you than to think you're a patsy.
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