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[STonevan]

Hello everyone,
I'll make this short. I've been with my bf for 4 months. It's a long distance relationship. He recently told me that he was intimate with someone in the first month we were talking. He says he doesn't think anything of it because we weren't "serious" then. I was upset and still am.... Does he have a point? Should I just let it go? Is that cheating?
Please help.
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[STonevan]

Yes and no---- I was curious..

[Life360_Dave]

Did you ask this because  you were concerned about getting some disease?

[STonevan]

@life360

I asked when was the last time he had sex.

[Life360_Dave]

This is kinda strange for him to tell you this. What brought this subject up in the first place? Why would he tell you this?

[RockRose]

I agree with Tink and Londres,  and have to warn you that long distance relationships are very very tricky.

They're long distance because one or both of you  wants it that way.  

[Londres70]

If you were just talking then this wasn't cheating.  Just talking isn't exclusive, i.e. a serious couple.

[TTinKKerBBell]

First know that I am STRONG on my opposition to cheating
BUT
I do think He has a point

If it WAS during the first month and if You were JUST talking and did not have a relationship, well then, I don't see this as "cheating"