Slight Pain and discomfort in head of penis

Question

About 10 weeks ago I was in Spain en route to my final duty station.  While there I paid for sexual favors from a woman.  She performed felatio on me while I was wearing a condom.  At one point she removed the condom and spit on my penis for lubrication.  There was no intercourse.   

I have already taken a test for STD's but due to our location the results can take up to six weeks to come back.  "according to Doc."  I took a test about a week ago.  Through out the past 10 weeks I have constantly checked myself sometimes upwards of 40 times per day.  Enough to were I feel like my penis is sore from me moving it around so much. 

Sometimes I feel like the tip of my penis has a slight discomfort/pain. It comes and goes.  No other symptoms.  Vance has already instructed me to see a doctor.  But in the mean time I wanted to see if anyone had a clue as to what this could be.

hkgulf · Answer

I am sorry but I still have a lot of anxiety and guilt about this. I can not have a proper examination because I am deployed and by proper I mean a clinic. Our doc has reassured me several times that it is nothing. but I am still scared. The only thing he tested me for was GC and Clamydia

Vance2335 · Answer

Stop looking and examining yourself, it's not doing you any good.

hkgulf · Answer

So now it has been 3 months since my affair witht the CSW.  I have not recieved my results from my test yet.  I have still been checking myself daily.  Can warts appear to be crater like?  Instead of being a bump?  On the outside of my urethra around the opening of my penis there is a skin colored crater like thing.  You have to look at it kind of hard to notice it.  Sometimes I think it is normal and just part of the outside of my urethra and others it looks like it could be something else.  Please help.

Aelly · Answer

I am sure you will be fine. You really did not have a risk.

hkgulf · Answer

I wish I were able to have a proper examination.  I am deployed at the moment and I hate to say it but my unit lacks the ability to test on its own so we are waiting for results from another command where I was checked at.  I understand what you are saying Aelly.  I geuss I just wont know until I am able to see a proper physician and get my results.

Aelly · Answer

You are concentrating too hard on the idea of the possibility of contracting a std.Two months checking yourself out can definitely mess you up. Focusing too much on examining yourself will make you convinced that you have a std. The mind is a powerful weapon in the being's arsenal and like I said before, it can cause many things to happen, including psychosomatic symptoms. I can only say to you that you are clearly nerved about this and the only way to finally find peace is to see your general physician. I was just like you when I though I was infected with a std. Every day for an entire summer, I was obsessionally examining myself over and over for every symptom I thought I had. When I went to the physician and got checked out, there was nothing wrong with me. Right there, every so called symptom I though I had cleared away. What I am trying to say is: Anxiety can get the best of you and once you find your answer, I am sure you will no longer feel overwhelmed.

hkgulf · Answer

Thanks for your reply Aelly.  This discomfort feels very real.  If I am not imagining it could it possibly be from moving, twisting, and examining myself all day everyday for the past 2 months straight?

Aelly · Answer

You had a protected oral affair thus, no risk at all. Even when she spat on your penis, there is not a risk. Anxiety can often plague the mind with psychosomatic symptoms that even a person who is rest assured by someone like physician cannot help but to still think that he or she still has something wrong with them. I agree with Vance that you should see a physician but, only to put your mind at ease, once and for all. I cannot see what could possibly a problem other than that is not a std at all.