std from happy ending massage

[brother9]

Hi Doc, I have been to a asian massage not far from home where I was offered a happy ending by the massacrer. (for those who have not tried it, it's an awful experience, guaranteed I wont do that again)This was done with her naked, where I touched her breast and her private part with my fingers, while she was conducted happy ending for me. It's now been 5 days and I've been really worried about catching std/hiv so I used surgical alcohol to clean my gentile area on a daily basis. she also kissed my chest. Given that our private parts have not had direct contact, I am wondering the potential risk of contracting std/hiv and other bugs. Because I am now experiencing itchiness and a minor "heat" sensation when I go to bathroom, do you think that's something to do with the allergic of massage oil/ surgical alcohol that I wiped myself with? Also, I would like to know how long does STD virus survival out of body/in fluid because I am wondering whether I should simply throw away/burn the clothes I went there with.

[Vance2335]

"Throw away/burn the clothes"...you are going way over board.

You did not have a risk for anything. Stop using alcohol to clean your groin area and move on with your life.

[brother9]

Maybe I'm over worried, but it is very weird to have that "stinging" feeling when I pee. Don't really know that's caused by alcohol or the massage oil tho. Super horrified and worried now everyone

[Vance2335]

It can not have anything to do with a STD. And of course something as toxic as alochol is going to give you negative effects. It is not meant to be used the way you are using it.

[brother9]

maybe the whole itching and stinning thing is entirely psychological you mean?

[brother9]

p.s. the massacre wore my underware for me and accidentally dropped it, so I'm also wonder how long std can survive in fluid cause I saw a tissue on the floor that looks like its wet

[Vance2335]

No matter what you say or add to the story you did not have a risk.

[brother9]

Hey Vance2335, thanks for your opinion. Because I am feeling some kind of burning sensation which I am suspecting either it's an oil allergy or STD. So you mean even if the std is presented in fluid, it cannot survive out of body for long..like 20 minutes or more?

[Vance2335]

A lot less then 20 mins.

[brother9]

thanks again vance, in that case do you think it's possible for me to get infection from the oil? because as I've previously described in my post, I've got this tingling + burning sensation on my penis and the urge to pee.

[Vance2335]

Not an infection probably irritation from that or other things.

[brother9]

Thank Vance, I hope you are right. It's been 5 days and it's a horrible experience for me. Do you think I should go get tested? If it's irritation...it should go away by itself, right?

[Vance2335]

Read what I wrote about your risk again.

See a Dr if concerned.

[brother9]

it's been the 6th day, don't know whether it's psychological or not..have spent over last couple days...this thing is leading me to a bit suicidal and depression. although the irritation from urine has gone, once in awhile i have this itching feeling on the lip (lower tip) of my penis...ive been checking it various times/hr but found nothing wrong. can somebody please advice

[Vance2335]

Nothing to advise...you need to read and believe what I wrote. I would also encourage you to see a therapist to help with your anxiety and other thoughts.

[brother9]

Thanks again Vance, is there like a safe period (ie. once up to certain number of days..if nothing happens, then I'm fine?). Also, do you have any idea how long std virus/bacteria can stay alive in air/fluid? because i am really anxious to a certain point where I just want to throw away the shoes that I wore etc. etc. seriously, this has been one of the worst experience ive ever had so far.

[Vance2335]

Safe period is day 1 becuase it was no risk. Do not throw anything away, but seek a therapist.

[brother9]

therapist as in psychological or simply a doctor?

[Vance2335]

Yes psychological. It can be a psychatrist or a concelor or a thrapist, but it's clear that you have anxiety and I am sure it has affect other parts of your life.

[brother9]

You are right, I do have anxiety...i'm also a clean freak so i found those massage parlour very dirty. not to mention i wore an underwear that was dropped on the floor..and to make life more exciting, there appears to be a "wet tissue" next to where it dropped. Although I noticed that piece of tissue when I got into the room, I duno whether std transmit that way...like after maybe 10+ minutes or so.

[Vance2335]

No it does not. STD's have a name for a reason...have to have sex (oral, vaginal or anal).

I know where your coming from with the anxiety. Please seek help for it...I am.

[brother9]

I guess this can be traced back to the lack of knowledge of STD because I thought touching the private part of the massacrer can also lead to STD infection. In combination with the itchiness of my penis and burning sensation these days...really makes me a bit suicidal.

[Vance2335]

If you are really having sucidial thoughts please seek medical attention.

[brother9]

Hi Vance,

I've been checking out the underneath area of my glans and noticed various tiny tiny white dots (diameter wise <1mm) on the line between the tip and the foreskin. They are along that long and do NOT form as a group. Do you think this is wart or just allergic reaction because I used alcohol  to wipe my penis earlier?

[brother9]

Hi again Vance,

I've discovered a tiny red spot on my penis, very tiny...but red spot on the tip of my penis, and I was googling for red spot herpes, do u think it's possible that I've contracted gentile herpes via the last massage experience, I'm freaking out now and having great anxiety. please HELPPPP!!!!