Mutual masturbation occurred between me and a man. Then after he was stroking his penis for a few minutes he then touch my *** with his hand....believe his hand might have had some precum but I didn’t feel anything wet when he had touched my a*s. No even though he didn’t finger me I had a dildo already in me that he was moving in and out.....my question is am I at risk of HIV being that his had was exposed to air for like 1 minute before he touched my anus....does having herpes for this situation make it worse?