Need Help Here!

[steve410]

Hi doctor!

I recently had a encounter with a stripper who gave me oral with a condom on. Because it was quite dark, I pulled up my pants thinking that she took off the condom after I ejaculated. But after I get home and undress I find that the condom is still "clinging" in my underwear, though it was not on my penis but touching it.

My concern is what are the chances that the outside of the condom, which probably had her saliva and other mouthly fluids, from the oral, come in contact with the left over semen and my penis after ejaculation. Could I have possibly gotten bad anything off of this?

Your kind answer would ease my stress and anxiety.

Thank you for your time.

[gracefromHHP]

reread my first reply to you :)

[steve410]

Hmm, so I suppose lubricated condoms leave residue when used... Anyways, should that still should not be a factor for concern for any std/hiv based on it being on my pubic hair? Sorry for the paranoid overthinking.

Thank you Grace.

[gracefromHHP]

sounds like mint lube on the condom which helps a little with the taste when performing oral.

[steve410]

Hi again all,

I did forgot to leave one detail from the incident. When I got back home, I noticed what I perceive to be part of a gum stuck to my pubic hair. Could this have been from the green condom that was used, as the substance was green and minty in smell, or maybe from the strippers gum? I don't think she was chewing gum when the action occurred but I could be wrong.

Now I am a bit worried that perhaps if it was actually gum, the saliva from the gum could have touched near the head and urethral of the penis after the condom was pulled off. I may be overthinking but was I at risk for any std's/hiv here?

Thanks so much for your comments. It has definitely helped me.

[gracefromHHP]

you had absolutely no risk for ANY std from this!! really, we don't make this stuff up!

grace

[steve410]

Oh Thanks Tony.

Sorry again to bother you, but would you say the same factor applies to HIV as well in my case? I'm not too sure if HIV and STD are related or different.
This would be my last question.

Again, so thankful of your comment.

[Tony19821]

No need to say sorry. The outside of the condom would only have had her saliva on anyway and this doesn't carry STDs. STDs are a lot harder to get than most people realise. Proper sexual contact is needed ie unprotected vaginal, anal or oral sex. The reason unprotected oral can pass an STD like gonorrhoea is that infection can grow at the back of the throat. The penis comes into contact with the infected area and that's how it can happen but it takes prolonged contact and even then it's unlikely that the infection would be passed. Please don't worry from this.

[steve410]

Thanks Tony for your knowledge.

Sorry Im a bit paronoid. So it should be ok even if the outside of the used condom was possibly touching my penis after the ejaculation in my boxers?


Thanks again.

[Tony19821]

Firstly I'm not a doctor but do have some knowledge about STDs. If you want a doctors input you have to pay to post in the doctors forum but please don't waste your money with this question. This was a zero risk exposure. Protected oral sex is safe for STDs and just because the condom came off after the event doesn't change anything. No need to worry at all.