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Urethra Irritation

So I've read on here that you cannot get an STD from a hand job and I agree.  But what if a girl fingers herself and then directly after pulling her finger out she rubs it on my urethra and head?

10 days ago I went limp during sex so the girl took the condom off and went and got lotion from the bathroom.  She got on top of me like she was riding me cowgirl but used lotion to give me a hand job.  She inserted her fingers into her vagina and rubbed the juice on my head and urethra...she did this 3-4 times.  

The day after my urethra started to feel irritated, not burning when I pee, but I can definitely tell something is not right and it's rather constant vs. comes and goes.

On another note, about 4-5 days after that happened I had a threesome encounter.  One of the girls was fingering the  other girl and a few minutes later got me hard by giving me a hand job.  The girl that got fingered made a comment that I needed to switch condoms when I switched partners...kind of stuck with me.

So based on the above info- is there a slight chance I could have gotten an STD- chlamydia, gonnorhea, herpes? anything?

And if i put my pants on after sexual encounter and any vaginal secretion got on my pants and I went about my day/night for several hours after, do I need to worry?

Thanks so much.
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101028 tn?1419603004
we explain in our read before posting post why sometimes telling you to be seen is the best any of us can do. our crystal balls aren't always working around here and NOTHING replaces being seen and getting a proper exam and basic testing done by a medical provider. the longer you wait, the less likely you are to get a reliable and accurate diagnosis from your doctor.
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No offense, but it seems like you don't have a lot to offer and somehow you were assigned to my post and unfortunately you offer the most generalized results available.

We are on here to get non-diagnostic advice because it is readily available to us.  When "go see your provider" is the best you can give me, I would honestly rather have you not even reply.
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101028 tn?1419603004
see your provider to get a proper diagnosis.
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Grace, after you replied to my previous herpes post and now going back to what you wrote on here, is it possible that I developed a fungal infection on my penis?  I took another dose of zithromax, so it was a total of 2 grams (1 gram on day 1 and 1 gram on day 5 or 6).  I think those itchy bumps showed up the day after I took the second 1 gram dose and it was after two days of really sweaty runs.
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101028 tn?1419603004
yes, all antibiotics kill both "good" and "bad" bacteria in the body and allow for the over growth of fungus.  

yes, herpes can be transmitted with condom use. your symptoms don't sound at all like herpes going on.
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azithromycin can cause genital fungal infections?

I did get a urethra swab to test for chlamydia and gonorrhea at the doctor's office...who prescribed me the zithromax.  I can't stand the irritation so I decided to take it without waiting for the results (which should come back tomorrow)

Why have I read that herpes can be spread even with the use of condoms then?
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101028 tn?1419603004
yes you can get a chemical urethritis from lotion in the urethra. we only recommend sex lubes, not body lotions because of that fact.

you really shouldn't have taken the azithromycin. it now will make getting any proper testing invalid for the next 2-3 weeks so if something really is going on, you won't know for sure for awhile :(  it also can cause genital fungal infections which just adds to your issues.

no, this isn't herpes going on either.  you never had any risk for std's at all from this.

grace
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I don't know if I'm doing too much reading on STDs and such, but it seems like the urethra irritation is very prevalent for a Herpes infection.  Does it make sense that the irritation would start 1 day after and last for 11 days so far?  

I just took 1,000 mg of Azithromycin so I hope that helps if it's just a general infection.  I don't know what I'll do if it's herpes...and I read that skin to skin contact can cause it if there was an outbreak...and I probably wouldn't have noticed it because don't females usually develop the sores on the inside?
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Ok, thanks.  So basically this irritation in my urethra is happening for some other reason?  I'm wondering if it's the lotion that the girl used...but I just can't picture it getting into my urethra to cause a problem.  I've been masturbating a lot lately too, but I don't think that would cause it.

Ugh.  It's really irritating and it's making me paranoid.  If a girl sits on my cow girl style and starts riding my penis without inserting it, is there a risk for herpes?  I heard it can spread without insertion.
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1318465 tn?1614894302
Hello

You describe a low risk overal for STDs.  
You are correct, zero risk for mutual masturbation (vaginal secretions to hand then to penis), people just don't get STDs this way.

You describe a low risk encounter for STDs from the 3 some from
"switching partners"

Don't worry about the "vaginal secretion got on your pants"   people don't get infections this way.



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