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Encounter with Massage spa CSW Dubai
I made a regretful decision to go to a Dubai massage parlor without realizing some key differences between home and here.
For one, they give blowjobs without condoms here (which I did not get)
But 4 things happened which I’d like to discuss.
1) I sucked her nipples
2) we kissed. I tried to keep my mouth shut but at one point she put her tongue in my mouth twice. I pulled back both times. This is complicated because I had a tooth extraction done two weeks prior and it might still have an open wound
3) she put her vagina on my penis for about 1 second while shifting. I told her immediately to not do that and she stopped.
4) she gave me a hand job
I am not too worried about #4 but decently worried about #3 and #1. What I am most worried about is #2.
Am I at risk for HIV or other STD’s? I feel like Dubai has more risk due to unsafe practices by sex workers here (for example only condom blowjobs happen in my home country)
Thanks
For one, they give blowjobs without condoms here (which I did not get)
But 4 things happened which I’d like to discuss.
1) I sucked her nipples
2) we kissed. I tried to keep my mouth shut but at one point she put her tongue in my mouth twice. I pulled back both times. This is complicated because I had a tooth extraction done two weeks prior and it might still have an open wound
3) she put her vagina on my penis for about 1 second while shifting. I told her immediately to not do that and she stopped.
4) she gave me a hand job
I am not too worried about #4 but decently worried about #3 and #1. What I am most worried about is #2.
Am I at risk for HIV or other STD’s? I feel like Dubai has more risk due to unsafe practices by sex workers here (for example only condom blowjobs happen in my home country)
Thanks
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Thanks for the reassurance on point 2. That helps a lot.
On point #1 I just wanted to ask one follow-up. I think she had a botched boob job or something because I noticed later that her boobs had a bunch of redness and infected looking lines around them. Didn’t look like they leaked puss or anything. More so just like an infection under the surface.
Does that change anything?
On point #1 I just wanted to ask one follow-up. I think she had a botched boob job or something because I noticed later that her boobs had a bunch of redness and infected looking lines around them. Didn’t look like they leaked puss or anything. More so just like an infection under the surface.
Does that change anything?
To clarify “they didn’t look like they were leaking puss, but idk for sure”
So first, please don't put your mouth on something that looks infected.
Are you sure it wasn't stretch marks? Or scratch marks?
And no, it's no risk. It's not an STD in her breasts. Maybe, just maybe, she had an infection from breast feeding or an infection from her surgery, but that isn't an STD.
You can have all the "what if" scenarios in your head, and there is no risk for you.
Are you sure it wasn't stretch marks? Or scratch marks?
And no, it's no risk. It's not an STD in her breasts. Maybe, just maybe, she had an infection from breast feeding or an infection from her surgery, but that isn't an STD.
You can have all the "what if" scenarios in your head, and there is no risk for you.
100% lol. It was incredibly dark (lights were off) so I didn’t notice until they were turned on. At which point I was like well, this was a fail all the way through.
Thanks for the reassurances. No more follow-ups. Take care.
Thanks for the reassurances. No more follow-ups. Take care.
Life tip - lights on for sex with people you don't know. :)
Take care.
Take care.
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This is no risk for anything.
2) we kissed. I tried to keep my mouth shut but at one point she put her tongue in my mouth twice. I pulled back both times. This is complicated because I had a tooth extraction done two weeks prior and it might still have an open wound
This is no risk for anything, even with your tooth extraction. Your mouth was probably pretty well healed, too, unless you had an infection or something.
3) she put her vagina on my penis for about 1 second while shifting. I told her immediately to not do that and she stopped.
I wouldn't worry at all if it was only for a second.
4) she gave me a hand job
No risk at all.
Really, you're okay. None of this had any risk. You can let it go and stop worrying now.