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[Regretfull7]

Hello all, i'm hoping for some of your thoughts on my situation.

Yesterday I very stupidly went to a massage parlour. The woman offered me oral sex and vaginal sex, but i declined.

She gave me a handjob, which I don't think is risky, however, she kissed my penis 3 or 4 times. I asked her to stop, but now i'm worried about it. Each kiss was like a "peck", the kind of kiss you'd give to someones cheek, her lips stayed closed. They lasted 2 seconds each and were not near the head of the penis, it was in the middle of the shaft. Afterwards I looked at her lips closely and didn't see any sores.

I'm concerned because this woman obviously provides unprotected oral sex to her customers and now she's kissed my penis, even though i asked her not to.

I am married and worried about passing something to my wife. The guilt is really like nothing i've ever experienced. I couldn't sleep at all last night.

My questions are:

1. Do i have any risk for an STD from the handjob?

2. What about the kissing of my penis, although it was brief and not near my head, can something be passed this way?

3. Should i refrain from sexual contact with my wife until i have been tested?

I suspect that guilt is my biggest issue (not an STD), but i'd really appreciate hearing your expert opinions

Thank you

[Regretfull7]

Thank you for the reply. It seems like you're saying herpes is my only concern? If so, can anyone please share when i might expect to see symptoms. I find a lot of varying information. Some sites say it can take years for symptoms to show and some say that most will have a primary outbreak within 1 week. So, if i make it a week without any symptoms am i pretty safe to assume i'm ok?

[Life360_Dave]

Hi, pecking is not a risk for any std. In the world of herpes it needs rubbing to force the virus into the nerve. So if some rubbing took place a risk could be considered but if she did not have any lip sores at the time that risk would be cllose to zero but not zero.