Here is my situation....I am male, from midwest, 30 days ago I received oral sex (2mins no ejaculation) from female of marginal background, I was tested for Cham/Gono and was negative....but as many on this forum my anxiety and guilt is getting the best of me....so I focus on the others, like syphilis.......I have no symptoms and understand that a conclusive test can be taken at 6 weeks so I am in a waiting game...and I have read that on average symptoms occur at 21 days....so my question is...since I have not seen symptoms so far am I in a good spot? (understanding the 10-90 day period)....what about sex with my female partner?