A month ago I received a massage and was given a handjob. She wet her vagina with lubricant quickly, I fingered her. She also lightly played with my anus with the hand that touched her vagina. I had an external hemmoroid at the time. My partner and I have herpes but rarely get outbreaks. After a weekend of vigourous sex, a spot suddenly appeared (after masturbating) that seemed like a single herpe that had broken open, it is now a little bump on my shaft that seems to be healing ok but I am obsessed with it. I have anxiety and I know My partner is a potential organ donor so others may be affected.