About two weeks ago I (male) had a threesome with a female and another male. We both had sex with the female (oral and vaginal) unprotected and switched back and forth. There was no oral or penetration between males, although our penises did touch as the female performed oral on both of us the same time. I also had vaginal sex with the female a second time after the other male had left.
Today the other male informed me that he had just tested positive for gonorrhea. I immediately told the female and made an appointment for myself to get tested. My question is, if the other male did infect the female during our threesome was I necessarily infected as well or was there not enough time for the female to become contagious and pass it along to me? Or was both of us having sex with her enough to infect me?