Possibility of infection (HIV/STD) after sexual encounter

[paranoidandroid1]

So last night i got pretty drunk and had a sexual encounter with an eastern european woman. The woman has clearly had alot of partners and told me her ex was bi. Shes not been tested since they broke up a few weeks ago.

Anyway the scenario played out like this. We mutually masturbated each other, she was VERY wet (squirter) and i touched myself with her vaginal fluid on my hand. After that she gave me unprotected oral sex then we had full protected vaginal sex.

Roughly what are my risks? I have a partner at home (im working away) and go back tomorrow. This is the first time in the 7 years weve been together ive been unfaithful and so irresponsible. I'd hate to infect her. I know im a scumbag and the guilt is killing me also. Any help would be appreciated.

Thanks in advance :)

[paranoidandroid1]

Yeah the guilts the worst. She already has questioned why i wouldnt sleep with her last night (first night home) im taking her away for the weekend for her birthday so no way of getting out of it.

Suppose im just gonna have to take my chance and cross the std bridge when / if i come to it. Im gonna get tested on Wednesday (7 days after exposure) will get the HIV duo after 28 days!

I think / hope im low risk! My lesson has been well and trully learned anyway. I feel like the worst person ever! Never been so stupid before.

[Justtoknow22]

Well, I know what are you going through. I had one time thing and got clamydia from oral sex. The guilt is a killer and it's a weight you carry until all your questions are answered. The chances can be low but still exist. Better you find out a way to not have sex with your partner until you check if you are completely clear. Better avoid sex than pass anything to your partner, otherwise will be another  headache to treat her, ( as you will probably need to tell her, I think you don't want that) you can get home test on internet for clamydia and hiv. Go for a doctor and check just for safety. She won't think it's weird you saying no to sex as soon as you don't show that is something bothering you about it. Tell that you are having some problems at work and you are not in the right head space for it so you can gain more time to test yourself.
And now learn your lesson as I did learn mine. Cheating is bad and at this time you can get the chance to get away with it, but not next time.

[paranoidandroid1]

Hi there, thanks for your reply. Im hone and going away for the weekend tomorrow. The misses is very frisky so will suspect something if i refuse to sleep with her.

After reading a few forums etc i think im pretty low in the risk category from my exposure and suspect my anxiety and guilt over the incident is making me worry more.

Aparrently a few of the docs on this forum reckon recieving oral and mutual masturbation carry a 'zero risk'. Im not nieve so know there are definitely risks but believe these are extremely low.

[Dalubaba]

Simplest approach is to consult a doctor, got all test doe and then olly enter home front. This is to save your future worries......