Let me preface this by stating that I do suffer from health anxiety. I understand the risk here might be low, but I am anxious about it either way. I do tend to get a little less anxious (even when the news is bad) when I have solid information, so that is what I am seeking. I'm not comfortable at all with how things went down, but me trying to frame the situation so I seem as "innocent" as possible isn't helpful here, so I will dispense with that.
I was recently given a lap dance at a fully nude strip club. The dancer grinded on my penis through my clothes until I ejaculated.
This has triggered my anxiety something fierce, so naturally my brain is jumping right to STDs. Scenario details:
- I remained fully clothed during the entire experience. While she was nude, I was wearing jeans and underwear.
- I did not insert any part of my body into any part of hers.
- I didn't actively seek contact with her vagina with my skin, but I cannot say for certain that there was no incidental contact.
- The dancer was able to position my penis inside my pants so that it was right on her crotch during the grinding. Again, no insertion, but I am sure my jeans at least had direct contact with her labia.Of course, I could not see it.
- The grinding was quite aggressive, to the point that my penis is mildly sore 2 days later. I understand this is probably just friction at this point, but it is making me think about it. I have no other actual STI symptoms (which I can't see how I would this quickly).
I recognize the answer to this is very likely (almost no risk of infection), but sometimes I need to hear it. Is this something I need to spend any time worrying about? I am less worried for me than I am with exposing my wife to anything (and yes - my wife knows I went to a strip club and all about the lap dance... not an issue there).
So bottom line - I is there any actual risk of transmission here? And if I were to get tested eventually, just to put my paranoid mind at ease, how many weeks should I wait?