Thanks for your help. The information you provided is absolutely right. Even some doctors are confused and I really want an answer to the unexplained.
Sorry I can't be anymore help then telling you that gonorrhea is a STD and only aquired by some type of sex.
Regarding the first time, I did not have any kind of sex. And the medical reports clearly showed presence of Neisseria gonorrhoeae. I really don't get how I am getting it. I have done some research on the disease and I really believe I have a rare case as I got it infected WITHOUT ANY sexual acts.
You can not get gonorrhea without having sex, either oral, anal or vaginal. So the first time you either had sex at some point or were misdiagnosed.
The second time it doesn't matter if it was not deep penitration you can still get it.