hi i'm an uncircumcized man in his early 20's and 13 days ago I got very intoxicated and ordered a csw over. she performed fairly rough and deep protected oral sex on me for 5-7 minutes and I did not ejaculate. I felt some pain during this and upon later inspection noticed a minor abrasion near the corona of the head (this has happened in the past as well). i'm fairly certain the condom remained intact. after this was done, I was so drunk I forgot to take the condom off and simply just put my penis back in my pants, only remembering to pull the condom off about 5-10 minutes later. no cleaning occurred after this, and I promptly went to sleep. exactly one week after this exposure, my scrotum turned bright red and I felt a burning sensation in the back of my thighs and buttocks. it is now roughly 6 days from the time I first felt these symtoms and there are no visible lesions whatsoever on my body (i've been checking constantly). now what I am primarily feeling is a slight twinge of discomfort in either armpit and a dull but noticeable ache + slight burn in my right buttock and twinges of minor muscle pain in my left leg. also throat feeling as if is closing and having difficulty swallowing. is this indicative of herpes or any other sti? would leaving the condom on for that additional amount of time put me at any increased risk due to the fluid on the outside contacting my skin? no testing or medical examination has taken place thus far. your help is extraordinarily appreciated!