Kissing a stripper - STD?

[Boblax]

Hello,

I'm in need of some serious help. This past Saturday, I was at a bachelor party and as most bachelor parties do, we ended up at a strip club. Not the most high end of strip clubs. Anyway, I got way too drunk like an idiot and ended up buying a few private dances from this one girl.

It's fuzzy, but in the third dance, she kissed me a few times. Not makeouts, because she said she could get fired, but your standard closed mouth kiss.

Other than that, clothes stayed on. She grinned pretty aggressively. I had shorts, a shirt and boxers on the whole time. I did end up cuming in my pants (embarrassing) and I touched her pretty much everywhere outside of her vagina.

After I stumbled home and passed out. Woke up with a soar throat, then on Tuesday the roof of my mouth became sore. Should note, I had some very hard kettle cooked potato chips the Monday night before.

It's now Thursday, I've spoken to three doctors, general practice, infectious disease and had a dermatologist look at the roof of my mouth. All said I have nothing to worry about.

My questions are:

What are the chances I contracted something from this incident? Main concerns are herpes hsv2, hiv or syphillis.

Should I get tested?

Should I have the doctor swab the roof of my mouth?

I have a girlfriend I'm basically on the verge of going insane from my guilt. All doctors cleared me to interact with my girlfriend. Also I should not I've had cold sores before when I was little.

Please let me know your thoughts, thanks!

[FunFunFun123]

Your chances of catching HIV from a closed mouth kiss are ZERO, and there has only ever been one documented case of HIV transmission from open-mouthed kissing, and the two people involved both had open sores in their mouths.  You are killing yourself with anxiety.  Go and enjoy your life!

[Life360_Dave]

No Std causes symptoms 24-48 hours after. Rare means rare meaning it dosent happen that often and if she had a open active lip sore she would not be kissing you as the pain would be to much

[Boblax]

Hey Dave - wanted to follow up, how about scabies? Is that possible from my exposure? I've become pretty itchy all over my body, no rash, and i don't know if it's something or in my head. It's now 6 days post exposure and I've read that scabies takes 4 weeks for symptoms to show, so not sure.

Thoughts? Thanks for your help.

[Boblax]

Hey Dave - any thoughts here?

[Life360_Dave]

Oral hsv2 is rare and unless she had an open lip sore at the time,and you gave her rubbing romantic kisses its really zero risk as hsv2 rarely sheds, meaning its only surface with no lip sores. Its zero for HIV. You really had a zero risk affair from what you describe.

[Boblax]

Honestly, I couldn't tell you if she had an open sore or not, barely remember what she looked like.  I assume they wouldn't let her work if she had a big open sore, but maybe they would cause of idiots like me. Good to hear it's rare though.  How rare is it? And does having past cold sores protect me in anyway? Assume not, but worth asking.

How about testing, if I were to get tested how long would I have to wait for everything? Do you recommend doing a full std panel?

Finally, and sorry to keep bugging you, but how about my sore throat and the red/soreness on the roof of my mouth 24-48 hours after the event, does that have any significant meaning?

[Life360_Dave]

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[Boblax]

Thanks for your help! You have no idea how much I appreciate it. Would it be possible to get hsv2, hiv or anything else from kissing and a lap dance? If so, what kinda odds are we talking? Also, if I was to test for piece of mind, how long do I have to wait? I gotta tell you the night was a haze but I'm positive my penis stayed in its cage and didn't touch her actual vagina (maybe around it). I remember her even placing my hands away from it when I got too close at one point.

[Life360_Dave]

Hi from what you describe you had zero risk to contract any std.