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STD through friction would abrasion

A typical story ... I have started to frequent Asian massage parlors and masturbating myself frequently.  Due to the excessive activity from the massage girls and myself masturbating my penis, I have soreness and some abrasions.

I am worried that some of my most recent visits could have put me in jeopardy of ANY type of STD with my specific fears being herpes and of course, HIV.

Scared to death and fear I will infect my family just by touching things in the house now or that the clothes I hung on the wall or laid on a chair in those establishments could spread something to my family.

Please help.
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Thank you, Grace.  I think I'll just refrain from this practice from now on.  I'm too shy for someone to see my underwear ; ).  Thanks again.
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Thank you.
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even with broken skin on your penis, you won't contract herpes from a hand job. not many folks have herpes on their hands to transmit it to you.

if you just like scantily clad women rubbing their hands all over your body, keep your under wear on for the massage so you have less to worry about :)
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You didnot have a risk.
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Well, I did misspell a word in my title and I am not sure if that is a point of confusion, but I have abrasions from friction on my penis.  I think I have heard them referred to as friction wounds.  I fear that the abrasions would allow, during subsequent hand jobs, something to get in and give me genital herpes.

I am getting hand jobs.  Also, I was face down at one point and the last girl did something I could not see.  I could hear her moving her clothes around and I am not sure that she didn't touch herself somewhere (she did this more than once.

Grace, thank you for your help.  I hope (like many of the anxious posters here) that these additional details can be answered and I can feel safe that I am OK.

P.S. I think I am finally able to break this habit now.  
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101028 tn?1419603004
if you are only getting massages and not receiving oral sex or having other sexual contact, it isn't a risk for you.

also we call them sexually transmitted infections for a reason - it takes that sort of naked and intimate contact to transmit them. it's nothing you have to worry about transmitting from routine day to day contact with household members.

grace
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