What are the chances of getting an STD and STI in lap dance

[pct187]

So I went to a gentlemen's club where I was closed and the girl was wearing underwear or a g-string after I walked out I started freaking out I started thinking of if I was possibly infected with herpes or any later than I went to my provider and got tested for everything which HIV gonorrhea chlamydia herpes on herpes 2 I'm freaking out because I ended up getting a rash in my growing with white dots I've gone to 3 or 4 different doctors and they all tell me that it doesn't have the characteristics of herpes what is the possibilities that I caught that again she had I am with clothes and I might have touched her down there but I don't think I made any penetration was mostly over the underwear

[Tong1316]

wait what?

[pct187]

yes i did

[Tong1316]

Igg or igm? also how long after the lap dance did u do testing?

[pct187]

I got a IGG IGM test out of about 18 days of exposure but I start experiencing tingling and itching is around the tip of the penis again my penis never went out of my clothing she never touched it either with her hands or any parts of her body reason why I know is because girl had symptoms to

[pct187]

I know that I G G and IGM test 18 days is not conclusive but she's getting swab for some pimples that she got and I got a rash

[Tong1316]

So let me get this straight. you felt itching and tingling on the tip of your penis? any other symptoms on your tip? wheres the rash?

[pct187]

ya  yeah like a burning sensation it comes and it goes

[Tong1316]

so she gave you a lap dance, but your penis never left your pants? it doesn't make any sense. you tested 18days after the lap dance? how long did the stinging last? is the rash on the tip of ur penis?

[Struggling111]

Hi, I don’t see how on earth you got it from the stripper if you had your pants on the whole time and she had a g string or undies on? Like is it a coincidence? Did you sleep with someone else around that time? Did you touch her then touch your genitals? I got hpv like month after I was raped (high risk) and I think I have warts-getting checked next week, from exposure from over 8 months ago. It’s messed up I know but it’s not a coincidence in my case I’ve only had one other sex partner in last six years and we are still together and we both had nothing. Herpes can lay dormant for months just like hpv. So people can pass herpes and hpv unknownigly as they can have it and not show symptoms. The guy who raped me didn’t have visible warts but was still carrying the virus and infected me. Is it possible it’s sexual contact from someone else? How are you feeling now, did you get any meds? Don’t freak out at all, herpes goes away quite quickly, but with hpv it stays for months, years or permanently:/

[pct187]

I didn't touch her or touch my genitals I even ask my doctor what are the chances of getting this even if I was wearing underwear and told me it was impossible so I just don't know unless it's something else because I have to be skin to skin contact

[pct187]

and yes they gave me antiviral medicines

[Tong1316]

Trust me!! I'm in the same shoes as you are, but there's little to no chances of herpes if only ur clothes touch.

[pct187]

Well as of yesterday they told me that it was confirmed getting genital herpes I don't understand how because I was clothing and she never came close to my penis

[Tong1316]

wait what?! did u do a test?

[guilt1905]

Nothing, there is no risk exposure to begin with.

[pct187]

then why do I still have symptoms

[guilt1905]

It's your anxiety. But if you have been to 3 and 4 doctors already, shouldn't you trust them and move on?

[pct187]

well i just came back for the doctor she told i had genitel herpes and i so  losing my mind because I don't understand how if I had clothes on unless I touch something with my hands but I never pulled my pants down

[lxJORMUNGANDRxl]

Did you recently shave with a razor?
Question being if you did then it’s a good chance that it had an adverse effect on your pores.