What are the STD risks for me?

[Pondlifer]

Hi all,
A few days ago I was out with a group of colleagues and after a night of drinking we ended up somewhere we shouldn't have. I had a very regrettable, very drunken encounter with a lady at a "massage parlor" in the UK. She performed protected oral sex and then we had protected vaginal sex. The condom was intact and worn properly and . I don't have any visible cuts around the base of my penis. The only time that I think that I may have been a bit vulnerable to contact is when her parts will have touched the base of my penis or my scrotum during intercourse. And maybe when I rolled the condom off after the act. I realize that these are low risk scenarios, but in my head

I am beside myself with worry that I will pass something to my partner. It's the worst feeling in the world and I have never felt so depressed in all my life. I have risked everything I cared about with one act of utter drunken stupidity. I am so scared, I can't eat or sleep.

I am just looking for some advice on what to look for. Whether I need to get tested?

[auntiejessi]

The condom will protect you against chlamydia, gonorrhea, and HIV.  You are at slight risk for herpes, hpv and syphilis, but the risks are low enough that I wouldn't worry without any symptoms, like sores or bumps.

Aj

[Pondlifer]

Thanks for the response Aj.