a month ago i noticed swelling down below after having intercourse with a persron and sex toy...the next day it hurt just a little and the left side was swollen a little...few days later..i notice a sort of bump on the side of my vagina, not the inside,,,,thre was no fluid in it and no pain....then i started getting spots in my mouth ( i have always had cold sores..alot of them..) white spots on my throat and when i swallow its a little painful and dry feeling...i went to my ob and she said she didnt see any spots that shouldnt be thre but it is there...today i started to have this tingling burning pain on the left side of my back and left side of belly button....any clue what is going on