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Hi, thank you so much for reading and answering my question in advance.
2 years ago I met an escort. At that time I was 35 and sexually very inexperienced (I had a condom covered blow job in Amsterdam some years ago and that was all). I then had a hernia and decided that I wanted more sexual experience ASAP. The escort was an amazing experience. We used a condom for all intercourse. She did give me a blowjob without a condom and sucked on my balls and rimmed me. We had intense hard sex for 4-6 hours but I never came (but still enjoyed the experience).
A few days later my balls started hurting (there was no swelling, but intense pain, warm to touch (ice helped) and the tip of my penis often had clear sticky liquid, very similar to my hernia, apart from the clear liquid) . I went to a urologist and they ran blood and urine test and everything came back negative. The doctor gave me some anti bacterial (the same I got when I first had my hernia and was initially misdiagnosed). The pain went away in aprox 2 weeks. As all tests came back negative, I thought I may have hurt my gentiles during the hard long bouts of sex (I did not share the long duration of sex or that I did not ejaculate to the doctor as I was embarrassed).
I met the same escort again, and this time I also used a condom during oral sex (she did rim me again and touched my penis once with her tung by mistake). Again I did not ejaculate after hours of intense sex. Again I had the same pain and again was given the same meds... All tests came back negative. The pain went away in 2-3 weeks.
Since then (2 years) I have gone back to being sexually inactive... I get depressed if I think about it too much and have learnt to just be happy masturbating (which I have been doing since 14). I recently was feeling very horny and called the same escort again (I know, but she is an amazing and intense person)... We will be meeting in a few days... I want to know doing research I am getting conflicting answers... My symptoms feelt like epididymitis, but the tests never picked up chlamydia or gonorrhea... Not sure if they check for ecolia... Can the pain and it's duration be simply because of the pounding bumping my genitals took for hours or is it some sort of std? I now plan to use a condom for all activity with this person... Since the tests cam back negative (and assuming nothing has changed). Can I get a blow job without a condom? Also, could rimming and then blowing be the issue? at the very least can this person lick my Gentiles or can I get some sort of std from that alone? I enjoy rimming but reading up on it it seems very dangerous... Is that just a no no?
Sorry for all the questions. I am very confused as to what has causes this and I would like to enjoy sex without weeks of agony... Weeks of repeated doc visits, blood and urine tests with everything coming back negative...
Please, please let me know!
Thank you!
2 years ago I met an escort. At that time I was 35 and sexually very inexperienced (I had a condom covered blow job in Amsterdam some years ago and that was all). I then had a hernia and decided that I wanted more sexual experience ASAP. The escort was an amazing experience. We used a condom for all intercourse. She did give me a blowjob without a condom and sucked on my balls and rimmed me. We had intense hard sex for 4-6 hours but I never came (but still enjoyed the experience).
A few days later my balls started hurting (there was no swelling, but intense pain, warm to touch (ice helped) and the tip of my penis often had clear sticky liquid, very similar to my hernia, apart from the clear liquid) . I went to a urologist and they ran blood and urine test and everything came back negative. The doctor gave me some anti bacterial (the same I got when I first had my hernia and was initially misdiagnosed). The pain went away in aprox 2 weeks. As all tests came back negative, I thought I may have hurt my gentiles during the hard long bouts of sex (I did not share the long duration of sex or that I did not ejaculate to the doctor as I was embarrassed).
I met the same escort again, and this time I also used a condom during oral sex (she did rim me again and touched my penis once with her tung by mistake). Again I did not ejaculate after hours of intense sex. Again I had the same pain and again was given the same meds... All tests came back negative. The pain went away in 2-3 weeks.
Since then (2 years) I have gone back to being sexually inactive... I get depressed if I think about it too much and have learnt to just be happy masturbating (which I have been doing since 14). I recently was feeling very horny and called the same escort again (I know, but she is an amazing and intense person)... We will be meeting in a few days... I want to know doing research I am getting conflicting answers... My symptoms feelt like epididymitis, but the tests never picked up chlamydia or gonorrhea... Not sure if they check for ecolia... Can the pain and it's duration be simply because of the pounding bumping my genitals took for hours or is it some sort of std? I now plan to use a condom for all activity with this person... Since the tests cam back negative (and assuming nothing has changed). Can I get a blow job without a condom? Also, could rimming and then blowing be the issue? at the very least can this person lick my Gentiles or can I get some sort of std from that alone? I enjoy rimming but reading up on it it seems very dangerous... Is that just a no no?
Sorry for all the questions. I am very confused as to what has causes this and I would like to enjoy sex without weeks of agony... Weeks of repeated doc visits, blood and urine tests with everything coming back negative...
Please, please let me know!
Thank you!
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