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5 days after I gave my boyfriend unprotected oral sex

ok so today is day 5 after the stupid deed!!
my flu like symptoms are much milder than before, no more runny nose or conjestion!!
but my lips are much drier than couple of days earlier and my lower lip is starting to chap. there are all these tiny pimples starting to show in my chin, and above my upper lip!

my whole body itches but i gotta say that i've had this particular symptom even before the oral sex so it might not be related.
I havent gone to a doctor or get tested yet!!i was waiting for a few days to pass just to see if anything changed, but now i'm gonna schedule for an appointment sometime next week!!

also, i don't know if this info is relevant but i was in my period (3rd day) when i gave my bf oral sex, so i had a few pimples showing in my chin and close to my lower lip at that time, and they usually go away after i'm done and none appear after my period!! I can't say the same is going on now, since the old ones are taking their sweeet time to go away and new ones are appearing!!!
so i guess my question is:
How worried should i be about all this?
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I do not know much about herpes. You should ask the question in the herpes community, they have a ton of info there.
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Vance I'm now more interested in knowing if wat i have are possible symptoms of herpes!!
What do you know about herpes symptoms?their spread and how long it takes for them to show..could these small (stressing the SMALL since the pics i've seen of herpes sores on the internet are large things) pimples be caused by herpes or by me just over stressing?! my face is really itchy especially around my mouth and now i itch close to my eyes and neck!!but i'm trying not to touch them as much as possible!!

p.s: i've scheduled for a doctor's appointment next thursday

please helppp!!
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Well like I said most of the times symptoms do not show for oral gonorrhea and for herpes and sypnilis you would get a sore.

But a possible symptom of oral gonorrhea is a sore throat. But also if he had gonorrhea about 90-95% of men show symptoms. So chances are he would have noticed that he had gonorrhea.

And oral sex is a very low risk on transfering STD.
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Well to be honest i havent talked to my bf about it in depth since it happened!!
I guess if i completely trusted him i wouldnt be asking for answers here.
I trust he didnt lie to me when he said he got tested for HIV/AIDs and the result was negative but frankly we havent been really open about our sexual history before now!!it was a blind move from me before even knowing such important info!
We havent been together for long and yes this was the first time giving him oral sex

But I just wanna know about the symptoms i mentioned above, are they familiar to you? have you got any info on the matter?


Thanks :)
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You should not be worried at all.
Also have you talked to your boyfriend? Do you trust him? Have you given him oral sex before?
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