I am male in my late twenties with a longterm partner. I had never been unfaithful to my partner, who has been tested and is clear of all STDs. On a recent trip without her, while extremely intoxicated, I received oral sex (both on my penis and anus) for a short period of time from a transsexual prostitute. Following the encounter, I returned home and had sex with my partner (both vaginally and orally) twice within a few days. Afterwards, I was overcome with extreme anxiety about the possibility that I could have contracted an STI and, even worse, passed it to her.
About 7 days after the potential exposure, I started to feel a burning sensation in the tip of my penis with an increased frequency of urination. At first, I had assumed this was due to genitally focused anxiety, as I have read is possible. The symptoms worsened, and two days later I was tested at an STD clinic for chlamydia and gonorrhea. Both came back negative. A day later (now 10 days from exposure) I went to see my doctor about the symptoms. They took a urine sample which tested negative for the normal UTI bacteria as well as chlamydia and gonorrhea (again). However, the test did show an elevated level of RBC in my urine (4-10 /HPF). He prescribed a 7 day amount of Bactrim, saying there is still a possibility of UTI, though rare in males of my age.
I have not had any lesions that would suggest genital or anal herpes, though I find it difficult to check for the latter on my own. I keep seeing things that freak me out, but I'm well aware that I'm probably just looking for something that isn't there.
Based on everything I have read, including this site where I've found some similar cases, I'd like to believe that these symptoms are a result of my overwhelming anxiety and guilt. I admit that I have been experiencing a great deal of it, to the point that I've had trouble sleeping much...On the other hand, the RBC content of my urine seems to suggest that there is a real issue that is causing these symptoms (whether related to the encounter or not).
Is it possible that I have some kind of NGU that was not detected in the urine test, which is causing the elevated RBC count? Or is it likely that I contracted HSV 2 and have yet to get sores? From what I understand, in both cases it should be WBC count that is up (mine was normal), not RBC.
Thank you in advance for your time and advice.