Syphilis?

[718]

I hooked up with a guy and when i fingered him i felt little feces feeling things in there. there was 2-3 loose little feces feeling balls in there. I put on a condom and ****** him doggy. Came inside and then when i pulled out the condom slipped off and stayed sticking out of his anus. I pulled it out with my hands. If this guy had syphilis would I get it on my hands? I have short nails. We chilled for a while and then we went at it again. I used a condom again and this time it didnt come off. I had it in for about 20 seconds and he said he couldnt go anymore. Made me take it out and he pulled the condom off. When he threw it down the toilet i noticed that that one had blood on it also.

1. what made this guy bleed so much? Im not that big
2. Are those bumps inside his anus a std? I seen no other signs around his whole body.

Thanks

[gracefromHHP]

pain in your fingers isn't usually a std.  

grace

[Healthadvisory]

You had protected anal sex, you did not
Not catch syphillis. You had unprotected oral sex you can get an std that way but it is rare. Your anxiety is your main concern. You encounter is to low to worry about. Move on.

[718]

Well My fingers were aching real bad the other day. But other than that. I guess I messed around with a *****

[gracefromHHP]

why can't you stop thinking you had to have gotten syphilis?

grace

[718]

If he had hiv and syphilis, would get syphilis would I get hiv also?
My fingers are aching. Is almost 2 weeks to early for that? I had a split in my lip the day after or so, right in the middle. any input?

[gracefromHHP]

the condom was on for the encounter. it gave you protection.

grace

[718]

You know. The hiv specialist at the clinic was teaching a new worker. I asked the guy some questions and he said the new window period for hiv will be 6 weeks etc! Thanks grace for that input. I thought it was high risk. And what about my slip off? It stayed sticking out of his bottom... when i pulled out of the condom. Do you think I could of contracted hiv? and if the condom was broke would I be able to tell? I heard you will def know its broken, by the sound and also shredded to pieces. the condom was to big and I think was a thin kind. When I pulled it out, It seemed to be the same length and not shreddy

[gracefromHHP]

oral sex is low risk but not no risk.

if you really need the peace of mind, follow up with testing at the appropriate times.

you need to wait at least 6 weeks to test for syphilis and 3 months for herpes and hiv.

grace

[718]

I forgot to add that He did give me a BJ. Im not sure if he has syphilis etc. How long does it take to get rid of stds and how long would it be contagious? I didnt know you could get it by receiving a bj. How easy would you say it is to catch a std through a bj on a one time thing, and kissing, Herpes? Easy? When should I test.

Thanks again for your reply, The people who created sites like these are very helpful on calming people down in ruff times like these

[gracefromHHP]

not enough lube will cause trauma to the anal area and cause bleeding.

it's not likely you contracted syphilis from this encounter.

grace

[2terrified]

http://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/American-Holidays-and-Posting/show/1243868

The above link refers to posting on American holidays.  Please be patient.  I do not know a whole lot about syphilis except that you can test with a conclusive result at 6 weeks after exposure. If anyone has any more information to add, they will.  You simply have to be patient.  This is explained in the "please read before posting" sticky.

[718]

Can someone please answer? When should I get tested? and what should i get tested over this fingering experience?  I never seen blood on my fingers but I did finger him later on again after the shower... :(