I recently ended up with 2 dime size white lesions on my vagina. I had hpv about 20 years ago and was treated and never had a problem since. I have only been with my husband for the past 8 years and neither one of us has cheated. Out of the blue, I found these 2 flat white raw areas on the outer part of my vagina, one on the upper area and one on the lower area. I do not have any discharge but feel like my vagina and anus are itching like crazy. I have also broke out with little bumps on both of my wrists, not sure if it is even related to the problem. I was swimming and the next day I noticed these sores on my vagina. They look like they are all white, but flat. I went to the obgyn and she said that she could not tell what they were because I had already put medicine on them and tried to treat myself. She said she could not take a biopsy of it but was going to do some bloodwork to check for a few std's, including herpes. I explained that I was married and so on and she just made me feel dirty and uncomfortable about the entire situation. She looked and said she did not see any warts so I am not sure what this can be. I am devastated at the thought that it could be herpes and my husband seems to be very understanding about it and says we will deal with whatever it is. I am just so upset and can't even get through the day without crying. Is it possible that I contracted this years ago and never had an outbreak? I have looked at pictures of herpes and they look like groups of little bumps and these are just 2 large areas that I'm dealing with. Can someone please help me before I totally lose my mind?