I was drunk and I made a poor judgment call and it's been eating me up inside every single day since it happened. I went to the back with one of the dancers where they had beds and I got a lap dance then she took off her clothes and took out a condom and seemed to put it on me carefully, then proceeded to give me oral and I asked "you use condoms for oral?" And she replied "yes, I don't know who you've been with." Which me made me feel better that she cared about being safe. Then after she stood up brought me behind her and we started having sex for a few minutes I distinctly remember the condom was fully intact and doing its job, she then stopped and said there's no more lubrication and took the condom off and put a fresh one on and we continued till I finished. I took the condom off fully intact again and cleaned up. And ever since then I've been worried every single day about std's... I've had no symptoms of anything and have been going about my regular days working out and playing sports, but it's like when anything happens to my body I freak out. Like I think I have a swollen lymph node in my groin or a small sports hernia and I freak out because I'm scared that swollen lymph nodes are a sign of hiv. I just want to know what my chances are of being infected with anything and should I be worried. I know I should get tested but I'm just scared. And also I have not had sex with anyone since this happened.