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[johnjohnson14]

hey i wanted to ask about these small white bump .. kind of looks like a white head on my penis under the pee hole..i mentioned awhileee back how it was examined by about 4 different doctors 1 out of the 4 was my regular doc not a std specialist and they all said nothing . i did use the antifungal cream for a period of time thinking it was maybe a yeast infection but there still there same size and all .. theres 3 of them ... i wanted to know if this was a yeast infection would i be expericing symptoms . because im not .. also would it be safe for my partner to perform oral on me ..i just want to know what can it possibly be and ive been tested and negative so is this non std related .. im just a lil confused.

[johnjohnson14]

i did say i would also test with her but test might not me accurate for me but will for her since the kiss she had that im worried about happen october 24 or so. but do you think i was in any high risk

[auntiejessi]

I think you should test when she tests if you can afford it, but only because it makes it a shared thing, and not a "I think you have something so test" situation.  

Well, I do leave it out, and sometimes I forget, but mostly its because so many people already have it, and if its been awhile since they've had oral, and they've had no symptoms, its not really likely that they've gotten it.

AJ

[johnjohnson14]

i would like to add that day we had protected sex but she went down 3 or 2 different times each time no more then 5 mins maybe 3 or 2 mins. the most . she did put it in her mouth a couple times and performed oral but like i said for the most part she licked around it because i insisted.

[johnjohnson14]

also aj im not trying 2 insult your intelligance because its obvious you know your things about Stds but when reading other post that ppl describe there unprotected oral sex and they ask what should they be tested for alot of the time you leave out hsv1 is it because you assume they may already have it or the is it the chances of getting it during oral sex are so low ?

[johnjohnson14]

i thought it was the responsible thing to do to. when she tests should i test . and was i at any high risk from the unprotected oral . like i said she licked around more then actually sucking . i dont want to sound so.....but just so you can get a better understanding. thank you aj .

[auntiejessi]

If you are going to be sexually active with this woman, testing is a good idea, and just tell her that you want to be safe, and show her your results, and ask her to test.  Tell her you want to make sure you both are ok.  Its not disrespectful at all - its responsible.

Aj