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mistake in macau
Hi Ive been reading your forum religiously since I did this and its driving me crazy so I'm posting to give myself some piece of mind. I'm 22 and two weeks ago as I was traveling around Asia I made stop over in Macau and visited a sauna and had sex with a CSW their. It was my first time ever
having sex and im worried becuse I dunno if something went wrong. She brought me to a room and washed me with her breasts and then went on to have protected oral and vaginal sex. but here are my questions.
1) From what I read in other posts their is a very low chance of STD's being passed on when she washed me correct?
2)if she licked/sucked on my testicles is their a high chance that any STD's where transmitted this way since they were not covered, I don't think their were any cuts on my testicles so I should be fine correct?
3) I accidentally touched the condom when we changed positions and got some lube and her liquid on my hand but did not wash my hand immediately is this of great danger.
4) the condom to my knowledge stayed in tact the hole time, I think the condom was removed properly with tissue and I showered twice (once in the brothel and once in my hotel) after the experience. I would have known if it broke correct?
I haven't been able to sleep well since it happened she had a slight reoccurring cough and the issue of touching the condom is really worrying me. Last night my nerves snapped and I was trembling and I really feel like I never wanna have sex again or at least till I know I cant infect anyone else. On top of that I have been feeling a mild pain in my penis and slight pain when I urinate or masturbate. I think all other symptoms I feel are stress related I just wanna know how much at risk you think I am of HIV.
I thank you for your time and apologize if you feel I am asking unnecessary questions.
having sex and im worried becuse I dunno if something went wrong. She brought me to a room and washed me with her breasts and then went on to have protected oral and vaginal sex. but here are my questions.
1) From what I read in other posts their is a very low chance of STD's being passed on when she washed me correct?
2)if she licked/sucked on my testicles is their a high chance that any STD's where transmitted this way since they were not covered, I don't think their were any cuts on my testicles so I should be fine correct?
3) I accidentally touched the condom when we changed positions and got some lube and her liquid on my hand but did not wash my hand immediately is this of great danger.
4) the condom to my knowledge stayed in tact the hole time, I think the condom was removed properly with tissue and I showered twice (once in the brothel and once in my hotel) after the experience. I would have known if it broke correct?
I haven't been able to sleep well since it happened she had a slight reoccurring cough and the issue of touching the condom is really worrying me. Last night my nerves snapped and I was trembling and I really feel like I never wanna have sex again or at least till I know I cant infect anyone else. On top of that I have been feeling a mild pain in my penis and slight pain when I urinate or masturbate. I think all other symptoms I feel are stress related I just wanna know how much at risk you think I am of HIV.
I thank you for your time and apologize if you feel I am asking unnecessary questions.
wow, see the fear for me is that I know everything was protected, to be honest she was a nice lady and it was not A REALLY BAD EXPERIENCE/but it was the wrong way to experience it and i regret I couldn't stop myself.... and she was pretty its just that she was coughing allot and I'm having fears about when she washed me fluids mixed and after i hit orgasm we changed positions and I might have lied down in her fluids that were on the towel we were doing it on and I had a cut somewhere, or maybe the condom broke but everyone tells me I would have know. I think it's fear from inexperience. The doctor told me not to even get tested but I'm afraid so for my piece of mind ill get tested in 3 monthes. I hope it goes well for you boss I'm sure you will be fine.
Heh. Looks like I did exactly the same as you. A 'csw' did the whole breast soapy wash thing and then we had (protected) sex. Never had sex before. The experience was extremely unpleasant and disappointing, and she wasn't attractive. I also felt dirty and guilty afterwards. I would give everything to go back in time and stop myself from doing it. But to make things worse, I couldn't come to an orgasm, and eventually the condom came off, and after a while she took my penis back into her mouth, unprotected. I was too weak to say anything and now I probably have herpes. Yippie.
Hey I dunno, I asked the doctors opinion about my experience and I have to trust it was no risk I'm getting tested in 3 months anyway just for the sake of my own nerves. but never used a CSW its caused me nothing but fear, I only did it because I was alone for so long never had a gf and I dunno guess my hormones got the better of me and the situation just let me give in more. But even after the doctor's re-assured me its hard to accept without that 3 month test. I know its me it's just that its so easy to be scared I guess. IF ANYONE IS EVER THINKING ABOUT CSW DON'T it will ruin your life especially if it's your first sexual experiance. you feel fear, dirty and guilty and 3 months is a long time to wait to make sure your ok. I'm even too afraid to ask some girls out due to fear of infecting them or them finding out what I did. I know you think you will never do it but I think we all have vulnerable moments and who knows what will happen.
Thanks allot for your reply...Ill continue to use condoms but I think I won't be having sex for a while least till after my 3 month test. But I do have one more question thats kinda bothering me is that I have excema and this often causes my skin to dry and sometimes crack like I said to my knowledge with the exception of a pimple on the bottom of my penis their were no sores on me but could this later lead to a problem even though their was no sighs of skin irritation? I know its a strange question I'm just curious. Thanks again for helping to calm my nerves when I get the doctor results back I think I can sleep easy.
you are at ZERO risk for HIV. continue to use a condom in the future. as far as your painful urination, it may be a UTI - urinary tract infection. if this persists, go see your doctor.
you are at ZERO risk for HIV. continue to use a condom in the future. as far as your painful urination, it may be a UTI - urinary tract infection. if this persists, go see your doctor.
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