I was with a man about 2 weeks ago. We dated for about two months...and had oral sex off and on, and rimming. His ex turned out to be somewhat of a ***** and slept around) had a rumor about him to be HIV+, yet he denies it. The guy I was with was tested after they were together (they did have unprotected sex) and was negative, but he didn't wait 3 months after the last time they had sex to get tested. 2 other people after this, and doesn't know their status. We did have oral sex, and I did have some small cuts or wounds in my mouth, and small amounts (or even large amounts) of blood were present in my mouth (maybe, idk for 100% sure). He was UNCIRCUMCISED , and did not have any open wounds or cuts in his mouth or on his genitals. When we finally did have anal sex (which was only once), we used a condom...but my mind sets in and I get worried. He says he will get tested, but keeps procrastinating and saying that he'll get around to it. I got tested about 12 days after we had sex, and was negative for everything...but I also know that HIV can take up to 3 months to show up in your blood. What was my risk for contracting any STD??? I am worried to death, and have a date set up in a few weeks with another guy...and if I kiss him and have a small tiny lesion in my mouth, I wouldn't want to give him HIV or any other STD...