Hi I had unprotected sex about a year ago and didn't notice anything out of the ordinary untill about 6 to 8 months ago. My urethra is now red and i have a red patch on the head of my penis that looks shiney and iterated I also have spots that show up and dissapear within a day,occasionally it is itchy I went to see a dermatologist about 2 months ago and said that it just looked irritated and to come back if it didnt go away so I didn't think much of it until one day I went to pee and I got a horrible pain it was so bad I almost screamed luckily it hasn't happened since but now maybe every 2 days I have cloudy urine I have anther appointment in a few weeks and hopefully I can figure out what it is. What could it be??