I'm going to disagree with Vance just a little. Even if you were both virgins before meeting each other, you can still contract hsv1 genitally from oral sex. At this point you need to go and be seen and get these looked at. It could be a std, vaginitis or even a folliculitis going on just to name a few common causes. Prompt evaluation of your symptoms is the best course of action.
grace
If both were virgins and have never had sex with anyone else then neither could have a STD to give. See a Dr, this is not going to be STD related.