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i visited a strip club one afternoon. i was sitting there, then this blonde girl comes up
to me and asks me if i want a dance. i said fine so we went to a booth and talked
for a little bit. she said shes been in my town for 3months and had a son(shes from flordia).
she gives me a dance fully naked then reaches under my shorts and touches my penis for alittle
bit . really quick. i was touching her breast and touched her vagina a little bit. i put my finger inside her
really quick(we're talking seconds here, if that). she was dry mostly alittle wet. i sucked on her nipple
also for a few seconds. iddint notice anything wet besides my saliva(no breast milk or anything that i know of).
i was pretty hard after that and she gave my penis a massage over my shorts. shes asked me if i wanted her to "take care of it" for me in the vip room. stupidly i agreed. luckily though she was a hustling stripper cuz when we got to the vip she said to give her 100 dollars for a blowjob. i only had 25 i was just expecting to get a lap dance from a hot chick nothing more. i stupidly asked her for a handjob but she said she only gives blow jobs. didnt have money for that so she just gave me a dance. during the dance i pulled out my penis and started masturbating. i may have rubbed it on the back of her thigh and butt for a few seconds. anyway i masturbated to completion
and the head of my penis may have touched her nipple for a slight second when i came. oh also in the vip room shes touched my penis again only for a few seconds, there was no handjob action going on. after i came i put my penis back in my shorts. she grabbed my hand and put it to her vagina and it was wet. i stuck my finger in again
for seconds and it wasnt deep. after that we went to the main room and she told me if i came back later she would have sex with me. of course i didnt. soon as  i got home  i washed my hands a few times with soap and hot water. then i went up stairs and masturbated again then washed again. there was no vaginal,anal,or oral penetration. ididnt even kiss her. she kissed my on the cheek at the end of it all. did i put my self at risk for any stds including hiv? ive been freaking out over this whole thing because ive never done that before and had no intention to going in the club. is there a chance i could of had vaginal fluid on my fingers and got it on my penis during the masturbation. i heard it can go through foreskin. i dont know her HIV status, but im freaking out right now. pls if anybody can help me out i would appreciate it very much. also do i need to get tested?
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thankyou very much. bless your heart
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From this exposure, not even. But, for one to have a peace of mind, you can always get an evaluation of your current status for anything in a panel. But, no, no testing.
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thank you Aelly. so i shouldnt get tested? last one thankyou
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Bacteria and stds do not do well outside in the environment. They are weakened and rendered harmless. Plus, there has never been a case in which someone had caught something from this means of transmission. You are definitely not going to catch anything at all from this exposure.
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that was my last inquiry. if you could respond i would greatly appreciate it.
thankyou Aelly very much.
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thanks for your quick repsonse. im just curious why theres no risk
if theres fluids present. does it matter if i ejaculated? she touched my penis
but i masturbated myself. this is all assuming that she had HIV or any other std.
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1331558 tn?1317687687
There is no risk from mutual masturbation or by hand-genital contact even when fluids are present.
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even the fingering and masturbating later? i dont know if i had vaginal fluid on my hand
when i masturbated. it cant get massaged into the skin? thanks for your quick response
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1331558 tn?1317687687
We get a lot of these stripper stories here on medhelp and guess what: There is no risk at all from these visits and so called exposures. You just have a case of anxiety and guiltiness from the event. Touching, rubbing, kissing, licking, or suckling on the breasts have no risk of std transmission including HIV. Most of these strippers do not have HIV and even if they did, they are checked out. No worries here guy.
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