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STD from hand contact from condom

Hi. Good evening. Thank you for all that you do. Many many thanks!

Stupid stupid question. I know I should be in this mess to begin with.

I had protected sex with an escort. After sex for a few minute, I asked her to use her hands. She started to use her hands with the condom still on initially. Then she took it off before I could say anything. She used the same hand she was using earlier (hand on a condom that was inside her moments earlier) on my penis. She applied some lube/cream at various points, and again right before I could say anything she spit on the head on my penis. I am circumcised.

Any risk of ANY type of std?!? Aids/herpes/etc.

So many thank yous!
-Robbie


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Oh really? How quickly? ha.
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Robbie, they are also supposed to die rather quickly in air.
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Fair enough. Thank you guys for all your help and wisdom!
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You want a STD to move here to there to there to there? They do not operate like the common cold, that is why they care called STD's. Take specific set of circumastance for transmission. Also saliva doe snot contain STD's.
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Basic answer is supposed to be that these things live deep in our genitals and are designed to be passed that way too.

Need a lot of the organism, more than on genital-hand-genital, plus conditions aren't conducive, plus no thrusting to get them inside you.

Or at least that last stuff applies to the fluid-based ones, and all to skin-to-skin and fluid.

I'd be interested to hear Vance answer this too, though, in detail.

I read a post in which he told a guy who was concerned that a woman had touched her wet vagina and then masturbated his bare penis that it didn't matter if she whipped herself into a frenzy like a honey pot and used her fluids as lubricants on the guy, there was no risk (or something like that-it was funny).
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Basic answer is supposed to be that these things live deep in our genitals and are designed to be passed that way too.

Need a lot of the organism, more than on genital-hand-genital, plus conditions aren't conducive, plus no thrusting to get them inside you.

Or at least that last stuff applies to the fluid-based ones, and all to skin-to-skin and fluid.

I'd be interested to hear Vance answer this too, though, in detail.

I read a post in which he told a guy who was concerned that a woman had touched her wet vagina and then masturbated his bare penis that it didn't matter if she whipped herself into a frenzy like a honey pot and used her fluids as lubricants on the guy, there was no risk (or something like that-it was funny).
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ok. Just seems like vagina to outer condom to hand to penis would happen easily. Not to mention the saliva. Why wouldnt stuff transfer? Just curious why not. Deifinitely not questioning your knowledge, just wondering why stds wouldnt transfer.

Thanks man!
-Robbie
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But there is NOT
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Hey Vance, thank you SO much for the reply dude.  But if there WERE stds to be concerned with in this situation...they would be?

Many many thank yous and regards,
-Robbie
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Nothing to look for as you had no real risk.
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Oh, also, what symptons would I look for? Timeframe for symptoms to show?
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Hey! Thank you so much for the reply!  I thought I would get a notification of a reply, and was just checking in and saw your response.

That's a relief on the HIV. Even with very low risks, what were the STD's that you thought could possibly transferred? Also, anything to be concerned with her saliva on my head?

Again, I dont have anything that I can repay you for, but thank you so much for taking the time to help strangers.  Much appreciated. - Robbie
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HIV - zero risk

There are some STDs that can be transmitted through skin to skin contact but overall your risk is very low. If you have not experienced symptoms, then don't worry.

However, if you do engage in commerical sex, at least go for an STD screening once a year.
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