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hymen torn away

im a girl who is in earlier twenties. .
I have a habit of mastarbation but not all the time only with the fingers. and also I have not been in any sexual intercourse with anyone.
last week when I mastarbate I found it is bleeding. then I checked my vagina. I have torn the hymen.
in my community you have to bleed in the first night with your husband. if not there will be doubt about my virginity.
I know im a virgin but I can't make my husband doubt me. is there is a chance for me to bleed again in my first intercourse?  and will there be a resistant for my husband when he penatrate me for the first time? will he find that my hymen has torn before?
these questions are stressing me a lot and its mentally torturing me. help me please
also its been 6 days im still having some blood spots im really scared.
help me please
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139792 tn?1498585650
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Even a simple thing like cycling can tear up the hymen. So intact hymen cannot be considered as a proof or virginity. yes a doctor can diagnose whether a girl is used to intercourse or not. Now a days people are not orthodox enough to expect bleeding on first night.Unless he is experienced, he may not be able to peitrate vagina in the first night. So take it easy. You may bleed if there is full penitration.
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Most women have a reptured hymen long before they get married. You probably cut yourself from masterbation.
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