sex for the first time

[Cooper4]

Im a virgin and i tried to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time
and he couldnt get it in further than about an inch
. we tried pretty hard and it hurt pretty bad and
i dont know what to do! is there anything i can do like maybe taking
mild muscle relaxants or something because its my tightness that is
the issue. please help! id like to avoid more awkward situations like this

[pandabear94]

have him (i dnt kno if ur like this but) finger you first itll stretch u out a lil my friend gave me this advise and it really didnt hurt my first time..and after that it never has

[jmbpdt88]

the first time is always a time where it will hurt a little. however, my first time did not hurt nor did i bleed. do not worry too much and relax, the muscles will relax on their own if you really want it to happen. also, as lubricants do work, try even just getting "wet", or getting the penis wet right before.

[sweetpea03]

You have to relax... It's your first time and you're probably nervous, so your body tenses up. (hence why he can't get in.) Take it slow and talk with him about how you're feeling. Sex isn't just a physical thing, it's emotional, too and you have to be ready for it all. If you're not completely ready, there's no hurt in waiting a while...  

[mayfray127]

hey...the same thing happened to me this past sunday. ur right it was akward but my bf was really cool about it...and i don't even think he got in an inch. thanks for asking that question!!!

[imanaddict]

Maybe try a lubricant. With you being a virgin, of course it's going to be tight, and it will hurt. You will probably bleed as well.

[Gigger]

You'll be ok girl...give time time...communicate your feelings and he might feel same way....if he cares for you he will understand.  I will hurt the first time.