Boyfriend Probs!

[kdbennett18]

My boyfriend and I have started being sexually active this past week. He wants me to suck him and to put his thing in my mouth. Does anyone have any pointers on how to do it correctly or what he is even talking about?

[remar]

Please do not think I'm being disrespectful because you give such great advice on this forum.
I'm not sure if you realized this was a very young girl asking for advice. It sounds like she is in her early teens. We always try to give very young teens advice about not doing these kinds of things, not telling them how to do it and giving them websites.
Again, no disrespect to you at all. I just don't think you knew how young this girl is so I wanted to let you know.

[remar]

Good for you! I agree, if he only wants you for one thing he is not worth it. Never let anyone talk you in to doing something you do not want to do. The above posters are right about STD's from oral. Since you have becoem sexually active you really should get on birth control and always use a condom along with it. Both of these will protect you from an unplanned pregnancy and STD's.

[AnnieBrooke]

You are right that he's not worth it.  In theory, a couple should be together because they enjoy each other's company emotionally, intellectually and, if physical attraction adds to the mix, as long at they are adults [and not married to someone else, lol] they should do what feels exciting.  But the hooking up should not be the REASON for being together.  It is merely a nice offshoot of the affection between the pair.  Sounds like your guy was just in it for the sex.  Hate to say it but a lot of guys (especially teenagers) are.  They sometimes seem to save their emotional closeness (if they have any) for their buddies and just to expect their girlfriend to put out.  If someone presses you to do something sexual and he is under 20, again I hate to say it but half of the time he is pressuring you so he can then brag to his buddies.  None of that is worth your time.

Take care, it gets better as time goes by and the guys you go around with mature.  Takes a while for them to grow up, though.  ;)

[kdbennett18]

Thanks for all the advice! :) He asked me to again this morning a couple hours ago. I told him no. He broke up with me so I figure if he is going to break up with me over something like that then he isn't worth it.

[Dalubaba]

https://in.*****************/question/index?qid=20080216115451AAP4fWM  
The above is a website where you will find some tongue exercises. there are other websites also.

[Dalubaba]

There are some tongue exercises like flipping tongue, sweeping tongue and two others. It is suggested that tongue could be uses for oral sex with movent of tongue.Male and female both can do this sex to each other. Google for tongue exercises. This is mentioned in a book by Dr. YUdelove- 100 days practice of Taoist yoga.In this method you do not need to take the penis in your mouth.You might get similar exercises in Google.

[arlandonbloom]

I agree with AnnieBrooke. If you don't want to do it, don't do it. If he gets mad about it, move onto the next one. My husband always told me to give him oral sex but I thought that was gross so I said no, no, no every time he asked and we are still married. But if you don't want to do it, don't do it. And if you do want to do it, you will just have to experiment to what he likes and what you are willing to do.

[AnnieBrooke]

Um, honey, if you don't want to do it, don't do it.  No offense to your maturity level, but you sound pretty young; don't let him pressure you to do something that you yourself don't find sexually exciting.  If it turns you on to think of doing something like this, that is one thing, but if it doesn't, why do it?  Kids are getting STDs from doing oral sex, thinking it is safe.