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Cannot get wet !
[I re posted this from my first journal entry today as well] [also a bit graphic sorry >_<]
3 years him & I have been together, WICKED sex life & relationship! yet lately out of the blue the last month or so i have had some problems gradually getting more in the way.
Not being able to get wet...sometimes at all. No matter how much i am enjoying myself or he is. It makes us both feel terrible, and kills the mood. He is more attractive than ever, our sex life is average so that is not where to go for answers. I heard soemtimes getting more Omega-3 (flax seeds and such) helps alot, so maybe my body is just low on something i need. Im also gonna try more aphrodisiacs...if that helps at all. Whatever i can to help at this point. I'll update.... Not only that but on another note all together; i would like some advice over the next while on orgasaming.
I feel it all could tie in together a little.
I only recently in the last year have realized that i can orgasam by just "playing" with my clit, masturbating. It was sorta sudden and by accident the first time (i know how the hell can you do that by accident right). Took a while for me to get the hang of it and comfortable with myself. Now i can in a matter of minutes, given the right thoughts. I would really like to be able to do this with him! ...He has never been able to get me too, other than through intercourse. He feels like i am not enjoying myself; not only because of this but the wetness problem as well.
I sometimes feel a little pressured about it, it feels nearly impossible to do though. I cannot seem to get mysefl in the right state of mind and get horribly frustrated.
How can i get myself to *** for him that way?
Why can i not get/stay wet?!
So... i really need some help here. Feel free to ask details if it will help me get some answers ha ha ha.
3 years him & I have been together, WICKED sex life & relationship! yet lately out of the blue the last month or so i have had some problems gradually getting more in the way.
Not being able to get wet...sometimes at all. No matter how much i am enjoying myself or he is. It makes us both feel terrible, and kills the mood. He is more attractive than ever, our sex life is average so that is not where to go for answers. I heard soemtimes getting more Omega-3 (flax seeds and such) helps alot, so maybe my body is just low on something i need. Im also gonna try more aphrodisiacs...if that helps at all. Whatever i can to help at this point. I'll update.... Not only that but on another note all together; i would like some advice over the next while on orgasaming.
I feel it all could tie in together a little.
I only recently in the last year have realized that i can orgasam by just "playing" with my clit, masturbating. It was sorta sudden and by accident the first time (i know how the hell can you do that by accident right). Took a while for me to get the hang of it and comfortable with myself. Now i can in a matter of minutes, given the right thoughts. I would really like to be able to do this with him! ...He has never been able to get me too, other than through intercourse. He feels like i am not enjoying myself; not only because of this but the wetness problem as well.
I sometimes feel a little pressured about it, it feels nearly impossible to do though. I cannot seem to get mysefl in the right state of mind and get horribly frustrated.
How can i get myself to *** for him that way?
Why can i not get/stay wet?!
So... i really need some help here. Feel free to ask details if it will help me get some answers ha ha ha.
okay therez a boy that i like bhut i dnt like hym....bhut we always qet sexual like i touch hym nn stuff bhut he dosnt return the favor of course i want hym twe bhut idk whyy?? we arnt evn ina relationship nn its qreat bcus i jus qot a boifren!!!!0Mq
I'm only seven-teen but I have been sexually active for the past couple years. I have always been able to get wet and enjoy myself but the past month I have barly ever been able to get very wet and the past couple days I haven't been able to get wet at all. I can't get wet and it hurts me.
Why can't I get wet? I haven't had a a check up in almost a year. What all could this mean?
Why can't I get wet? I haven't had a a check up in almost a year. What all could this mean?
No idea what is causing the lack of wetness. Unless/until it changes, use some lube. He'll enjoy you applying it to him, and you can even get flavoured versions...
Plenty of women cannot orgasm without direct clitoral stimulation. It's perfectly OK for you to do this during sex. Maybe if you show him how you do it he can learn to rub you in the right way too. Also, you can buy toys that are basically a rubber ring that goes round the base of the penis with a bit that sticks out that directly stimulates the clit during sex, might be fun to try one of those.
Plenty of women cannot orgasm without direct clitoral stimulation. It's perfectly OK for you to do this during sex. Maybe if you show him how you do it he can learn to rub you in the right way too. Also, you can buy toys that are basically a rubber ring that goes round the base of the penis with a bit that sticks out that directly stimulates the clit during sex, might be fun to try one of those.
Could be that by your mistake playing with yourself that now you want him to give you that feeling and he has not ... Have you talked with him about this?? Try new things with him and let him do the same maybe you should masturbate in front of him ? I am just saying I wont go further due to the respect I have for the forum... PM me anytime
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