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Could I have gotten my girlfriend pregnant with a precum-covered finger?

On the 15th, me and my girl made out. Now, I don't remember exactly, but I think I might have had some pre-ejaculate on my fingers when I fingered her. I do remember having some pre ejaculate on my left hand from holding my own penis, but I can't recall if I fingered her with the left or the right hand. However, the amount of pre-ejaculate wasn't much, and my hand rubbed on a few places on her body and clothes, so I'm not sure how much of it must have gone in.

I did not orgasm, and PIV did not happen. Some mild rubbing, a little finger went in, and that was it. The finger might have contained some pre-*** on it.

She called me last night complaining of a mild pain in her abdomen, that she has never felt before. Its been more than 3 days when the fingering happened, just a little over the 72 hour window for the morning after pill. Although I had my concerns since I wasn't sure if my hands were clean before the fingering, I did not ask her to take a morning after pill since it has side effects. Also, she's only 22, so apparently she's not old enough to take it yet.

The 15th was the 7th or 8th day of her cycle. Her periods had ended just 2 days before, on the 13th. So, according to what I've read, chances she might be ovulating are pretty low, correct? Based upon what I've read on the internet, she isn't likely to be pregnant, but we're still worried sick.

Isn't it too early to be implantation cramps? I suggested that she might be beginning to ovulate, but she says she hasn't felt this kind of pain before. She also says she's been really wet for the past few days, more than she normally gets.

Is there a way to confirm for sure if she's pregnant or not? Should I ask her to take a morning after pill now? It's been around 80 hours since I fingered her.
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UPDATE: She just had her period. She isn't pregnant, thank god.
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OP here, Thank you everyone. The pain has subsided now, and I suspect it was caused merely due to psychological stress since I shared my suspicions with her. She's cheery now, and everything seems fine for now.

I will try to update when she gets her period. Hopefully it happens on time.
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I won't lie, it's not impossible but it is SO extremely unlikely that you shouldn't worry. she is also DEFINITELY not ovulating so soon after her period. I am impressed by how much research you've done. My first boyfriend and I were like the blind leading the blind. haha. Best of luck!
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BTW, bodies are wierd, shes might be having random cramps for no reason or for something unrelated, like gas or constipation, it happens to the best of us
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Really, must have a penis inside of her to impregnate her.  Really.  No worries here.
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Yes you can get a girl pregnant with pre-cumm fluids on the finger while inside of her. I think it is too late for a morning after pill. If she is ovulating, there is a stronger change to get pregnant. For future reference, have her pee afterwards if you suspect there is a possibility of pre-cumm or ejaculation is inside her. This is not 100% effective but it does help flush some of the fluids out.
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973741 tn?1342342773
You can not get someone pregnant by fingering her.  Your penis has to go into her vagina.  She would not be pregnant from you fingering her.  
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